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Profile: blindRainbow69
blindRainbow69 on Mar 7, 2018
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Because you are probably more focused on the negative things in you rather than appreciating yourself for the good qualities that you have.
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Profile: ImDom
ImDom on Mar 31, 2018
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Maybe you have done something you don’t agree with but your too afraid to come clean which is fine but it why I’m here
Profile: vitalev
vitalev on Apr 8, 2018
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I hate myself because I am a lazy peson and I am stuck being a child. I cannot take responsibilities onto myself.
Profile: amazingDreamer85
amazingDreamer85 on Apr 18, 2018
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You've been taught to hate yourself from other people (usually authoritative figures in your life) who felt badly about themselves. It's a matter of behavioural programming to teach yourself to look for the good qualities in yourself. Positive people will promote this mindset and you will pick up on it too. Practice saying nice things about others and it should spill over into how you view yourself
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 3, 2018
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Self-hatred is very common in depression, or/and it might be things you have not looked into which is fueling this. I suggest talking to someone you trust or/and your doctor about this. Wish you all the best :)
Profile: FakzWift
FakzWift on May 9, 2018
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There are many reasons for why a person can hate themselves. But everyone is usually much better than they think, they just don't see it. One of the main reasons in todays society for self deprecation is Social Media. It forces us to compare ourselfes to others.
Profile: anansispider95
anansispider95 on May 30, 2018
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There are a myriad of reasons we may not like ourselves. Sometimes we hold ourselves to an unrealistically high standard. When we ultimately do not or cannot achieve these high standards, we may feel inadequate, to the point of concluding that we will never be good at anything. Sometimes we hate ourselves because of the way toxic people have treated us. If we spend most of our lives being told that we are ugly, worthless, stupid, etc. we may start believing that we really are horrible people, undeserving of love even from ourselves. Sometimes we may hate ourselves for not being who our families, lovers, friends, or society wants us to be. For example, if you have a mother who hates your significant other, thinks you should get into a new line of work, tells you your hair is ugly, etc., we may feel bad for having disappointed a loved one. So really it comes down to reflecting on our backgrounds, present life stressors, and so on to determine what is going on to cause us to not like ourselves. It could be a combination of factors. To combat these negative feelings towards ourselves, it is helpful to begin replacing our negative thoughts with more positive ones. It is also a good idea to use affirmation statements each day, such as "I am good enough," or "I am learning to love myself today."
Profile: VigilanteQuinn025
VigilanteQuinn025 on Jun 8, 2018
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It is because we listen to what others say and sometimes even if a 100 people tell you a lie you start feeling like it's the truth. So we tend to believe what people say and start to under estimate ourselves resulting in low self-esteem which is why we hate ourselves.
Profile: Silverlining30
Silverlining30 on Jun 10, 2018
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Could come from pressure from others being confident or the fact you arnt accepted into "society's norm" which no one should. You may also feel like what you do or how you act isn't under your control and your actions cause you to feel hate for yourself. Which shouldn't be the case. Only do something if you feel morally happy with it and you think through it
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 13, 2018
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Sometimes we are ina very dark state of mind and everything about yourself becomes cloudy to the REAL AND AWESOME YOU!! its important to remeber that you know that this storm has to clear up eventually!! But right hang tight to that umbrella of yours!!
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