Why do I hate myself so much?
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Moderated by Danielle Johnson, MSED, Community mental Health Counseling, LMHC
Updated: Jun 15, 2022
BreatheEasy247
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Aug 3, 2016
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Insecurities are a terrible thing. It causes us to overthink and criticize ourselves for things that most people may not notice or pay that much attention to. It may be hard but you have to learn how to accept yourself and all your flaws in order to be happier with yourself.
Anonymous
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Aug 6, 2016
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We don't really hate ourselves. What me might hate is the things we've done, the things we've thought of and the things we've had foolishly hoped for.
helpfulHeart67
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Aug 7, 2016
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I hate myself so much because I did a lot of horrible things in my last, and I haven't forgiven myself.
Tori2194
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Aug 14, 2016
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Because society has a visual on what we should be and if we feel we can not fulfill that standard then we turn to hate towards ourselves.
Anonymous
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Sep 14, 2016
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I hate myself too much because I'm not to sociable, my pride always gets in my way , I'm selfish I don't have friends I don't depend on them because people are just too unfair to be with nevertheless it's the fact
Anonymous
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Sep 16, 2016
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I've had self-Esteem issues ever since I was 10, nothing seemed right about me even within my family
Chimmysmallz
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Sep 21, 2016
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Sometimes, i think that i hate myself because i make others hate me. Perhaps, you hate yourself because your mind is telling you that you did something really wrong to be the way you are. Which is quite sad.
Anonymous
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Oct 1, 2016
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You are the only person in control of you feelings, so ask your self the question. Write a list if you feel that would help. But everyone is different and unique.
Daisy1579
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Oct 2, 2016
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Self hatred raises because we don't love ourselves in first place. We always try to take other's opinion and try to judge ourselves on it. People usually hate oneself if they don't have friends or if others show any flaws in them or if they are any break ups and so on. There is a huge list. But I often wonder myself, why don't people behave as they want,why do they tend to rely on others. Happiness is what you can get by doing things you love. Respect yourself first, set a value for yourself, stay away from people who hurt you, love yourself. Be strong,bold, positive, intimidating, confident and happy. Set your own priorities. Know what you love and what you don't. Occupy yourself with happy thoughts and happy things. Do some interesting activities. I'm sure you will start loving yourself and others start respecting you too. Good luck!!
MonieeExo
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Oct 12, 2016
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You hate youself because you haven't realized how wonderful, beautiful, and amazing, and wanted you are yet.
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