Why do I hate myself so much?
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Moderated by Danielle Johnson, MSED, Community mental Health Counseling, LMHC
Updated: Jun 15, 2022
Anonymous
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Jun 1, 2016
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I guess the reason is why I hate myself so much is because I try so hard to fit it & no matter what I do it feels like people hate me. I feel ugly but when people say I'm pretty I just don't see it.
Anonymous
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Jun 2, 2016
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Because you compare yourself with others in all issues and you will blame your self for others inability remember ! In this entire world there is no bond for anything everything goes on rising there is no dead line for anything so, you are superior ultimately.
BestMotivationer
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Jun 2, 2016
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Thats a question you have to ask yourself.. you have to learn and love yourself no matter the flaws.
Anonymous
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Jun 3, 2016
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Hating yourself is something that many people struggle with, including myself. It can take a long time but eventually you'll start realizing things that you like about yourself. Loving ourselves is hard, because we never spend time to learn how to.
Anonymous
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Jun 4, 2016
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You should stop focusing on the negative part of yourself. We all have flaws, but it is important to focus on your strength and positive parts of yourself.
Anonymous
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Jun 11, 2016
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You hate yourself so much as you're focusing on " what you lacking and not what you packing." If you really knew how precious your life was and focused on the things you take for granted ;you would hate yourself a lot less. Focus. Focus on being positive. But if you still feel bad talk to a 7cups listener...we love you :)
Beblessedwithkindness2
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Jun 12, 2016
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People only treat you based on how you treat yourself. If you feel poorly about yourself, others probably will too & you don't want that. Instead of focusing on your negative attributes, focus on the positive ones & how you make yourself & others happy.
Anonymous
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Jun 12, 2016
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You should not hate yourself. It is probably the situations or circumstances that you are going through or have gone through that are causing these feelings toward yourself.
BassistBriar
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Jun 15, 2016
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You should never hate yourself! You are wonderfully made and have so much to live for in your life! You might not like yourself right now, but things will be better
Anonymous
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Jun 16, 2016
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People tend to love those who they care for. The more you do for others the more you live them.
By not taking care of yourself, it can cause you to not like yourself.
Do things for yourself, start loving you
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