Why do I feel like a failure?
Anonymous
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Jan 17, 2016
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Because my bipolar syndrome is ripping apart my relationship. I hate myself every day for hurting my fiance the way I do when I'm in a downswing.
KathyTheHealer
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May 19, 2015
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Because the things you have done so far are not successful.
Therefore you feel discouraged.
Good news is that : in every work, the percent of success is 10%.
Which means, you do 100 things , you succeed in 10 things.
What if you only do too few, like 10 things, then you have only 1 sucessful.
What if you only did 5 things, you can do the math, none successful, right?
So your problem is that you are capable, but you did too few things to have enough success.
(you can ask around about the success rate to see if it's true or not :) )
I wish you all the best .
Nosh
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Apr 10, 2016
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First off, snap out of it, you're not. You're just in a tough spot in life, and it feels icky. Go get out there, flip off the world and kick some more butt.
Anonymous
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Nov 30, 2015
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Feeling like a failure is often a result of feeling that you don't measure up to others. This is not a bad thing. People have their strengths and weaknesses and you may be comparing yourself to the best, brightest, or more fortunate.
Lotus48
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Jan 20, 2016
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Lack of motivation and support from peers, friends, family and your community. An accumulation of things that constantly go wrong.
Anonymous
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Feb 14, 2016
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Feeling like a failure comes from comparing yourself to your peers, which is what many people do. It's practically impossible not to compare yourself to someone else, but it's also not possible to feel completely like a wreck. The way to think positively in dark times is to look at yourself in the mirror, and think, "Nothing is impossible, because the word says 'I'm possible!'" You are useful, and you might make the world a better place!
Mike8448
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Jan 31, 2016
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You feel like a failure if you or others tell you that you are a failure and you believe it. Nobody is a failure and nobody should be telling others that they are either.
Anonymous
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Mar 18, 2016
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I think many of us have this voice inside our heads that feeds us these self-defeating thoughts, just know that you are not that voice -- you are the one observing it. You have the freedom and capacity to direct your life in whatsoever way you choose, and believe about yourself what is most practical.
Anonymous
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Jan 30, 2016
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You are not you are born in this world as a unique beautiful person the way you are there is no one born as a failure this world is incomplete without you it needs you as a human since everyone is unique and different
Anonymous
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Feb 17, 2016
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Just because you feel like one doesn't mean you are one sometimes you go through things to see other people and their motives (true colors).
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