Why do depressed people push loved ones away?
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Moderated by Smita Joshi, BA Psychology / MA / Advanced EFT Practitioner
Updated: Jul 12, 2024
Anonymous
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Jan 23, 2016
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Well that's a tough question but most people push others away because they don't want them to get hurt or to see them in this bad situation and all they want to do is be alone cause maybe that way things will be better and that they don't want to be seen so weak .
lyricalJoy42
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Jan 24, 2016
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There are a number of reasons. When I was depressed I pushed loved ones away because I was afraid of hurting them. I also felt like they were just being nice and putting up with me, tolerating me. I was afraid they didn't genuinely care. Sometimes when people are depressed they feel so tired and unmotivated that they just don't have the energy to interact with loved ones.
Santana
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Jan 24, 2016
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because sometimes when a person is depressed they feel alone, and want to be a lone, and its hard to deal with situations when there others around
duckyismyname14
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Mar 9, 2016
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They often get scared and overthink. They feel like no one will care about them or help them. However, they mostly always want to get help.
sunbird9
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Mar 10, 2016
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Because they don't want to hurt them . Depression makes someone feel like they are responsible for every bad thing thst happens.
glisteningLynx61
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Mar 10, 2016
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These people don't always realize that they are pushing their loved ones away. In most cases they can't even think straight and feel a lone all the time due to their great amount of consistent sadness. Sometimes they don't want to pull you into their own depression or feel that you'd just leave them and trust comes in at that point . Sometimes when they reach out for ones help they feel like they're never bring answered and decide to back away . There are many reasons for this and sometimes they're the only ones who can change that
Anonymous
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Mar 11, 2016
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Because they feel as if they either feel as if their loved ones don't care or they are a burden, which is never true.
Anonymous
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Mar 11, 2016
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People with depression normally cannot express what they are feeling and what other people say sometimes makes them feel even worse. They probably feel more distant and that their family will not understand and that them to feel that they should push their loved ones away
blisskitten
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Mar 11, 2016
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A depressed person may push loved ones away for many reasons. Sometimes they may feel like they're a burden on other people, other times they may think they're worthless or that no one likes them so they don't talk to anyone. It's listed as a symptom of depression to withdraw from friends and family.
Casablanca
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Mar 11, 2016
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Because they don't love themselves and they feel they're wholly undeserving of love and affection. The challenge is to reshape their perspective in such a way that they take an honest appraisal of themselves and can see themselves for something closer to who they are, without the depression's dark taint.
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