Why can't I stop hating myself?

Just because of some past experience you can't keep on mistreating yourself. Don't blame yourself. Forgive yourself at first that could make you hate yourself less.

As humans, we tend to see the worse in ourselves. Its hard but once you accept that you are not perfect and never will be it can get a lot easier to love yourself.

May be you havent seen the real side of love and yourself. Stuck in the materialistic world and comparing real life with the unrealistic one where you dont find yourself fit in. Its not your fault to hate yourself, bcoz you may be at the wrong place for the wrong reason for so long. Change the situation or accept it whole heartedly, you will love yourself and may be not hate anyone else also. Best of luck. To add another important related thing associated. People have this concept that they hate themself but they claim to love others. Those who cant love themselves cant truely love others. May be contradictory to some but true to the best I know. Have faith in yourself.

You can, stop waking up with the thought that you hate yourself. Wake up and be proud of who you are. Flaws and all. Our flaws are what make us who we are, they’re what help us grow as individuals. Figure out what exactly it is you dislike about yourself and work towards changing it for the better. There are plenty of people willing to listen and help you along the way, take advantage of you’re resources. Think positively about yourself and you will feel positive with yourself. Always remember negative thoughts result in negative outcomes and positive thoughts result in positive outcomes.