Why cant I move forward from my past?
Anonymous
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Jun 18, 2015
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Acceptance and Commitment therapy. Your past may be damaging but do not let it ruin your future. Lingering on to painful thoughts can ruin your chances of living a healthy and successful life. You are in charge of you. Accept what you can not change and pave yourself a new road of happiness. The reason you may not be able to move forward is because you have not been able to let go. While your looking for a brighter future you are still allowing the past to haunt you. I wish you the best of luck on your journey
Anonymous
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Nov 9, 2015
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Most reasons are that people cling to what makes them happy or sad and unfortunately we like to stick to what we know and our past is the easiest one to do it. We all need to learn from our past and apply what we learned to go forward.
setmefreeletmebe
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Apr 10, 2015
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Maybe something had touched you so hard in your past. A talk with a trusted person can help. You will feel better.
CharlotteBanana97
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May 16, 2015
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Sometimes people take longer to move on from past experiences than others, and that's okay. It all depends on the person and the situation.
Demi84
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Sep 14, 2015
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I believe that your past doesn't define you. Only the present. The past teaches you a lesson. In the words of Rafiki from the Lion King, "You can either run from it or learn from it." Mistakes happen in the past. Loss, grief, sadness, and anger. But those shouldn't stop you from looking at the positives as well. Memories are created from the past. Whether good or bad, it's not best to dwell in the past. But to live in the present. If something bad has happened in the past and you can't move forward, don't worry. There's always help and a lesson to be learned from it.
togetherwewillrecover
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Aug 10, 2015
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Sometimes, the past seems like the only straw to hold on. Let it go and notice you still wont fall , better : You are free.
Anonymous
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May 31, 2016
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it because you choose to be stuck in there. try to accept the fact that your story was over, turn the page and start a new chapter.
JustAnotherPersonOn7Cups
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Sep 19, 2017
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It is difficult to try to understand oneself without reflecting on the past. The only thing you can have influence on or change is the present. Utilizing the past as a tool to learn and grow from is perfectly healthy, but try not to become stuck in the past and no longer use it as a reflective practice tool.
Dailydaydreama
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Jun 23, 2015
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Sometimes our past is apart of us that we have to learn how to keep safe ! Moving forward is great , new memories help us have a safe balance that makes each day easier and enjoyable 😇
strongskies
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Jul 14, 2015
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I believe we look to our past in order to make decisions in our future. If something didn't work out, we avoid that certain situation without realizing that the second time around could be better. We are afraid of our mistakes and avoid them at all costs. We can't move forward from our past until we learn to be okay with it.
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