Why can't I find the right woman?

Now this might seem an odd answer, but I'll write it anyway. You are trying too hard. Not that it is a bad thing, or your expectations are too high. It's just that love is a wonderful thing, but its unpredictable. It doesn't happen overnight, the right person does not magically appear. But the process of searching becomes much more difficult if you look at it as a mission. The problem with doing that is you feel like a failure when you don't find the person. One of the better things about love is that you will find it in the strangest and most unexpected places. I found mine in the most unexpected place I thought. So don't give up, try, and then try some more. Like Ted Mosby from How I met your Mother (watch it if you haven't). But don't try too hard. Date women, don't invest yourself completely into it, so that you don't come out drained if things go sideways. Start of casually, and see how it goes. Don't start wondering from the first day itself whether some person is the right one. Women are wonderful, enjoy their company. The right person will come along. Never give up on love.

Because i must be the right person for myself first and the right will find me. What good am i finding bad in other people when i cannot advance myself

You might confuse "right" with "perfect" . The perfect one has no flaw and no existence as well on the other hand the right one is the one whom flaws you can look past to admire them and accept them the way they are and with whom it's mutual

maybe you have to wait for the right one to find you, cause sometimes its not about finding them its about waiting for the right one.

Are your standards too high? Do you put yourself out there? Have you tried online dating? A matchmaking service?

Only half of a relationship is finding the right person; the other half is being the right person. If you're having trouble finding a partner, try focusing more on being the person you'd like to be.

We all tend to ask why we can't find the answers right one what if the right one hasn't found you yet? Focus on you being the best person to yourself and the right one will find you

Maybe its because you're looking for the right things in the woman, and not the right woman! Think over it

Maybe you arent searching for love in the right places. Maybe you should try expanding your social group or just try meeting new people. You never know who might be out there

Sometimes, they just don't exist. Don't get me wrong here. What I mean is, we come up with the ideas of a person who simply does not exist. And we project those ideologies on the people we find attractive only to become disappointed. I'm not saying to "settle" for that or for anyone. You have the right to choose the love you want and the love you feel you deserve. But we need to realize and understand that no one is perfect. Someone who seems perfect at the time will soon reveal their flaws, and someone who seems flawed will reveal the patches they've used to cover things up and make things better. At the end of the day, it all comes down to you. Who do you feel you deserve? Do you deserve better? Does this future partner deserve you? Do they deserve more? Ask yourself these questions before you ask yourself about finding the right person.