What's the point of living without him/her?

Because before him/her there was you and you are very important too. It is important to love yourself, even when there is one less person there to love you.

Think of everything that you loved before that person. Think of every little happy thing you possibly can, and write them all down. Those are your things to look forward to - your reasons to keep living. They can be silly little things or big things. But no matter how small, they are still reasons for you to keep going.

Don't tell me that they are the only reason you live. What ever happened to family? Sister, brothers, moms, dads, grandma's, grandpa's. Do they not matter to you? What about your friends? They all love you just as much as he or she did.

There is always a point to life. Your life can live on without someone in it. If you leave, you will be affecting someone the same way that someone affected you. You have to move on and live life.

It can be very difficult dealing with loss either the loss of a relationship or the death of a loved one. The important thing to remember is that there is a reason to go on. There are people who care about you. I think that is one major reason to keep going, because you have people who care even if it sometimes does not feel that way. Another important reason to keep going is because you are worth so much more than the people around you. I think it is important to build your self-worth by investing in yourself. In society today we put so much stock into what others see and think that we tend to forget what is really important, ourselves. We should live for ourselves and not for others. Grief is a tough process in general and many people approach it differently. I like to think that in situations where someone I love has passed on I can go on living without them because they are living through me. I am what is carrying their memory on and so I should do that with as much care as I gave to them during their life. In situations where I have lost someone through the end of a relationship I like to remember the happy times and strive to make new and better memories to add to those with new people.