People don't believe I'm really depressed, how can I explain it to them?
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Sara889
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Oct 22, 2014
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Depression can be a really hard concept for some people to understand. If someone hasn't experienced extreme sadness or depression before, they may have a harder time understanding those feelings. When trying to explain your feelings to someone, you need to try to explain your feelings very clearly. This may be hard, since depression is a complicated issue. You can also use medical journals and books to find way to make yourself understood more easily.
Anonymous
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Aug 18, 2015
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It's their problem that they don't believe you. You don't have to explain anything to them. If they believe you, they believe you. If they don't, they don't. Don't worry about it. And if it's something important where they really need to know if you are clinically depressed or not, try and get a doctor's note or something.
Anonymous
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Nov 19, 2015
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Explaining to someone that you really are depressed is a really hard thing to do. You just want them to understand you and know how you feel. But honestly you don't have to prove anything to them. But if you really want them to know what is going on in your life try and talk as if it's a metaphor I know when I first told my parents I had depression and they didn't understand I said "It feels like your drowning and your being pulled down further and further and everyone can swim and stare at you." It made them quiet but they understood.
Lindsay0130
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Oct 6, 2014
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Last year I was very depressed. I had a really hard problem telling people because no one would believe me, than one day I made a teary confession and people started to believe me
Anonymous
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Nov 16, 2014
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It doesn't matter whether or not people believe you are depressed. I think a good way to help others and yourself would be to find some great resources online where the people in your life can read up about depression and the affects it has on you and others around you. Also just basic knowledge of the illness would be good for others around you to know.
Anonymous
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Nov 18, 2014
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You can explain it to them by being honest with everything you're feeling and going through with some examples so it'll be easier for them to have a concrete understanding of it.
Anonymous
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Nov 20, 2014
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Let them Things anyhing you dont need anyone to belive anything its Your life so be it....---------------
Anonymous
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Apr 3, 2018
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People don't understand that and yes when it comes to mental health, people are less accepting, don't take it out on them because they will disappoint you and to be true everyone doesn't really understand how one feels when he/she is depressed and only thing it will create is resentment for them, for not understanding what you are going through and it will make you feel worse.
If you really want to talk then I think you should go to a professional or take a challenge to get yourself out of it, it's difficult and for the most part you are alone in this, so fight for yourself and bring yourself out of it or at least try and if you have any problem then there people you can talk to, we are happy to listen what you want to say.
letsbehopeful
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Aug 28, 2018
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Firstly, other people don't decide how you feel. If you're depressed, you're depressed. If you still want to explain it to them, maybe try to refer to a website or book that explains it better than what you feel you can do right there and then. From my experience, all people can't believe everything you tell them, because they haven't experienced it by themselves. And remember, if they can't seem to understand, or don't want to - just listen to yourself and do what's best for you. Telling people is not always the best solution. My experience is also that I just tell people that really need to know, all people don't have to know about your struggles.
AuroraBorealis
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Oct 27, 2014
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First of all, you are not required to explain yourself to anyone. You don't need their validation, because if you are depressed then it is YOU, not them, that is trying to get help and answers. If you really must prove your depression, then sit them down and try to describe what is it like, and how your mind is working right now. Refer to a psychologist/therapist, and try your best to stay objective.
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