Is it ok to always depend on this site when you feel down?
Anonymous
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Jul 4, 2016
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Of course that it is, at least it's way better than trying to cope with feeling down with things that are self-destructive (alcohol, drugs, self-harm...). It's okay to search for help online and if you always come here instead of doing something bad to yourself then I'm extremely proud of you, and you should be proud of yourself too. But have on your mind that sometimes you're problems can be really big and that you may need professional help, but if you're not available at the moment to get it, of course that it's okay to come here and just vent and get help.
amisfit
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Jul 2, 2016
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7Cups Of Tea is a site/app for people who need a shoulder and an ear to lean on and to listen to. If your problems are a little too "bad" then maybe it'll need some professional help, but if it's to listen to then, it's fine.
Everyone here on 7Cups really does care about you. We're all here to listen to you. Don't feel bad.
Think of this place as a safe heaven :- )
enigmaticMoment64
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Jul 16, 2016
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Problems can be opportunities in all areas of life.
I think it's good to use the site when you feel you have noone to listen to you, when you feel cornered, or when you need a neutral space. It is okay and you should feel allowed to find someone to listen to you.
However, there is a limit to what the site offers - it follows a specific purpose in a specific kind of interaction, that of listener and member.
If you can open up to your friends (maybe even after you talked it over first here, so it is a little easier), or to your family, or other people in your life, you can find a variety of life-enriching support, conversation and discussion.
And while we are often suggested that being "down" or sad or angry is "bad" in our personal lives, it can also make us open up and connect with people around us on a deeper level. They tackle areas of our lives, sides of ourselves we don't always show to others.
Taking that step takes a good deal of trust, and it can go a long way to connect and feel valued, and it would be a shame if you never connected with those around you.
Anonymous
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Jun 22, 2017
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Hmm well this site is a great source of comfort but i don't think that it should be your only source of comfort
Anonymous
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Jul 5, 2016
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Its absolutely fine to come to this site to get yourself back on your feet, but do not fall in the trap of dependance, never become too dependant on anything. Because you may come to a time in which you cannot access 7 Cups, or 7 Cups may no longer suit your needs. You need multiple methods of coping and have a sense of independence too. Build a support network on 7 Cups, and with the people in your life. This way you will be on your way to recovery.
Anonymous
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Jul 10, 2016
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No, not always. Listeners are not always so consistent with their support and listening skills. A listener might be trying their hardest to assist you, but it might not be what you feel is right for you.
Anonymous
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Jul 1, 2016
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We are here to support you whenever you need it and help you get through your situation
Naturallyhappy00
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Jul 15, 2016
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Yes it is okay to depend on this site when you feel down because sometime it's easier to talk to someone that you don't know
romanticthi3f
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Nov 22, 2017
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It's wonderful that you have this site as a resource; that's exactly what it's for! There are always people around who are in the same boat or willing to chat with you.
One of the problems with relying on this site though is that sometimes the advice isn't helpful or you need more support then it can provide. This is why it's good to find other strategies that can help when you feel down like exercise, therapy, etc so that you have a few different go-to's.
Apollosdaughter
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Apr 7, 2018
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Yes but no. Depend on yourself than others. What others feel or say is their opinion and golden experiences which they gave acquired through life. Do what your heart says. Listen to your heart, it knows much better
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