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I think I have depression and I want to tell my parents but my brother recently got diagnosed so I feel like they would think that I'm just trying to get attention. What do I do?

Profile: glisteningLake87
glisteningLake87 on Mar 22, 2017
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You need to explain that your feelings are valid, even though your brother was disagnosed first it does not make your issues or depression any less significant
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Anonymous on Mar 31, 2017
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Depression can be dangerous, it's important to reach out for help especially to people you feel close to. It will undoubtedly be worth having a serious conversation with your parents about how you are feeling. Getting help is the only way depression can improve. You may also find it useful to speak to a councillor or someone you trust to help clarify your feelings, but ultimately, professional help shouldn't be overlooked.
Profile: NickTm
NickTm on Apr 14, 2017
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I think you definitely shouldn't wait to tell them. From experience, I know that suppressing such a serious mental illness like depression only makes it worse. If you really explain it to them truthfully, they will know you're not seeking attention. Even if they react negatively, letting them know you have these feelings will make you feel better.
Profile: AllThatGlitters1
AllThatGlitters1 on Apr 15, 2017
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Talk to your brother so you're both not fighting alone and able to help each other through the hard times and discuss ways of coping with them. Be honest with your parents, if people don't know they can't help. Be as open and as honest as you can and don't be afraid to ask for help
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Anonymous on Apr 16, 2017
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I believe that telling them would be the best idea. It's better to tell someone, anyone about something that been on your mind. Especially your parents, they're the best people that can help because they can always find you help if they need to.
Profile: imbrandybuck
imbrandybuck on Apr 19, 2017
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Depression can often run in the family along with anxiety and the like. Be as honest as you are comfortable with with your family, this may be a good opportunity for both yourself and your brother to get help together.
Profile: WinterDog
WinterDog on Apr 20, 2017
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I was literally in that same position a couple of months ago, not even joking. I didn't tell them for ages because of my brother and it got worse and worse until I finally did and they were so nice about it and were glad I told them instead of suffering in silence. It's up to you but I suggest sitting down with them and explaining the situation and making it clear that despite what it may seem like, you are not doing this for attention. I'm sure they will understand and would want you to tell them instead of suffering on your own. Good luck.
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I would suggest talking to someone you trust, telling them that you think you may have Depression. Or make an appointment with your doctor and discuss this with them, if those options are not right for you, try talking to a therapist on 7 Cups!
Profile: Asja
Asja on Apr 30, 2017
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You need to explain to them that that you're saying is serious. And that it is easier for you to tell them after they accepted someone else with it.
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Anonymous on May 3, 2017
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Depression runs in families. I would definitely tell your parents if you are feeling depressed so you can get proper help. Certainly they wouldn't think you were just after attention. They want the best for you!
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