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I feel like life is pointless. How can I find meaning in my life?

Profile: ZachariahAtteberry
ZachariahAtteberry on Feb 24, 2016
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I am sure we all have had that moment in life that we have spiraled down into a crypt of depression so deep that we forgot which way is up. We lose all light that used to make our life seem bright, alert, happy. It is often times like a snowball where life seems to get more pointless with each passing day when you are trapped in this state. I understand fully what it is like to ponder about the future and what it could bring to us and if it would be of any considerable value. And the thing is... no one knows what life will bring to us tomorrow. But I have found that by setting goals... even little ones and doing any small goal helps. And even something like donating to a humane society or completing a goal of running 1 mile when your goal is to reach 5 eventually. Life is an adventure... and it is common not to see what you want to be or want to do when you haven't explored everything yet. Finding meaning in life is less about being rich and becoming king of the hill and more about finding something that helps others and yourself. When you find what you are meant to be doing, work starts to feel less like work and more like a call to action.
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Profile: wishfulDreamer58
wishfulDreamer58 on Oct 14, 2016
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I found myself lost just like you many times and then I found myself back again! You see what I mean? It's great to be lost in life because it makes you question all those things that don't make sense in your life. It's certainly not a great feeling to be standing at the crossroads, but I can assure you that it will lead you to a better place. Many people don`t even know that they are lost, they simply do the things the world, society and the media tell them to do; in other words a lot of us are brainwashed. Sorry to say this, but I am happy for you in a way because you are questioning life. Soon, with the help of experiences, in your own way you will find answers too. Because, it is YOU who knows best what will make you happy. What makes you happy...ask that question everyday. Write what comes to your mind the very instant. Don`t judge or analyze what your mind is telling you. Just write. Maybe cooking makes you happy, or maybe just slowing down a little makes you happy. Nobody knows that but YOU. I keep a journal now, I write all that my mind jabbers to me through the day. Guess what...it is from that very same jabbering, I get my answers. Our mind is so quick in thoughts that if you don`t rely on it, you will lose some very resourceful answers and thoughts. So start off by writing it all down. Remember it is a journey, you will not find answers to your question overnight through some magical Genie. So be compassionate with yourself, give yourself time and then slowly with time, you`ll know what makes you happy and how you can make a meaning of your life. Don`t forget to enjoy the journey because it is these ups and downs that create a beautiful, fruitful life. God bless!! :)
Profile: IAmMacha
IAmMacha on Jun 18, 2015
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One foot in front of the other. One foot in front of the other. One foot in front of the other. Repeat till fade.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 22, 2015
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Do what you want to do, don't think what others expect of you. When you just do what you want, and have fun, everything will mean something, because every moment of happiness has a point of being there. :)
Profile: Laynz
Laynz on Apr 3, 2015
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Set goals. It may seem hard when life seems pointless but setting goals helps give your life orientation. Even just a small goal that's really short term can help. You can build up to bigger goals later on!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 1, 2015
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Life can definitely feel dark and pointless at times. Find something, anything you love. An activity, a goal, a friend, a pet, a hobby, an education. Whatever you have chosen focus as much time as you can on it. I hope this helps.
Profile: RainbowTrie
RainbowTrie on Feb 13, 2016
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First, this is a symptom of depression and you should be evaluated by a professional. Second, many people find meaning in creating (art, writing, music, etc.) or caring for others ( kids, elders, plants, pets, shelter animals, etc.) . Perhaps you could try something like that in the meantime. You might even find meaning in supporting others here on 7cups. Best wishes to you.
Profile: tarrycastle9053
tarrycastle9053 on Feb 13, 2016
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Any rational man would say Life is Pointless, Nothing Really Matters and There is no purpose in life. But it takes a wise man to know that meaning comes within. You have to find your own meaning by doing creative work.
Profile: Avi001
Avi001 on Sep 21, 2015
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You are alive, talking, living, and wanted. Everything has a dark side and a bright side, you just have to find it. Success is born from many failures. Use the bad as motivation to have a meaningful life. Get out of the house, go to a park, enjoy the day. And keep smiling because its contagious :)
Profile: mimo29
mimo29 on Jan 12, 2015
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One thing I can suggest is taking up new activities. You might try learn a new sport, or volunteer your time somewhere. It's hard to feel low about your life when you're making other people's lives happier. I do caution not to just avoid the problem by keeping yourself overly busy, however. Always keep a check on your moods and slowly, hopefully, you'll find your way out of the darkness.
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