I am struggling with codependency and depression. I cannot afford therapy. What can I do to get help?
lionBRAVE9977
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Jun 6, 2019
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Think about something that you CAN control despite your status, and go triple down to improve it. is it a sport, a hobby, a thing you enjoy ? depression can occur from not feeling like there is a place for us on this world, but that's really not the case. the answer is in you. think about something that you CAN control despite your status, and go triple down to improve it. is it a sport, a hobby, a thing you enjoy ? depression can occur from not feeling like there is a place for us on this world, but that's really not the case. the answer is in you.
Anonymous
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Feb 15, 2020
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Try to see if there are places in your area that offer free therapy sessions.
You can come on to 7cups website, and browse the many free programs and services they offer.
The website address is https://www.7cups.com
There you will find a whole lot of information.
You can even become a member of 7Cups membership,cost you nothing at all.
The website also has a list of trained listeners,who are caring people,who give of there time to listen.
7Cups has support rooms as well.
The rooms are run by Trained Room Leaders.
In the rooms, there are listeners,in there who also help out.
The members help the other members out,when they can.
Hope this helps.
Brittany8013
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Jul 11, 2018
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First of all, good for you for reaching out! Searching for local support groups may be one of your best bets. however, there are also plenty of online resources such as 7 cups of tea, facebook, other forms of social media, crisis lines, etc.
Anonymous
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Jul 12, 2018
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Ask a loved one or friend for help. Communicate with them by phone or text. You can't hide from mental illness.
Anonymous
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Jul 22, 2018
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You can get help here. There are so many listeners on 7cups- you can write them and they will help you. But the biggest help is you because I can’t change it when you don’t want to. Just write a listener and see what happens. If you are feeling like nothing helps, please tell your family or friend. You can also call a helpline. Talking also helps.
Anonymous
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Feb 16, 2019
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7 cups is a great app to talk to people about things you’re going through. Going to the doctor to get medication is also another choice that would be good. You don’t always need therapy! You can even try talking to friends and family. That could possibly be your therapy if you can’t go see a professional. Letting your feelings out to your friends, family, or even people around you... can be very helpful sometimes. Letting go of what’s in your head is sometimes a good thing. Even if you don’t want to talk about it. It’s always nice!
kindLynx91
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Apr 7, 2019
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Talking on 7 Cups to a listener is a good way to slowly think about some of the issues that you are facing. Take the time to reach out for a supportive chat and see how things go. You may find that having someone to listen is helpful in figuring out the feelings of a lack of independence and while the listeners can not specifically advise you of what to specifically do they can help listen to your ideas and thoughts. Having to confidence to move forward means that you are very brave and reaching out to talk to listeners can be a positive experience that helps with your personal journey.
BellaDearHereToHelp
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May 1, 2019
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Come to 7cups like I did. Talk to your parents or friends or other relatives. Utilize healthy coping skills like drawing and music. You can talk to a teacher or a guidance counselor those guys are helpful too. You could also try to get financial help through your school or another government organization that may help pay for your therapy. You could try journaling. Just write down everything you would say if you were talking to a therapist and then read it out loud if that helps. You have to find what works for you and stick with it. I don't know if I was helpful but it's just my opinion...
fairyava
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May 16, 2019
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Codependency is a struggle that may be stemming from loneliness, which may be coming from depression. Feeling like you cannot be away from another person is a difficult situation, because it leads to an emptiness when you do happen to be away. Codependency can lead to feelings of insecurity, worthlessness and frustration. Connecting to a listener on 7cups, working through mental health worksheets that you can print out, trying to spend more time focusing on your self-care and trying to connect with other friends are all healthy ways of coping with both codependency and depression. There will always be people there for you who are willing to help, and you have come to the right place.
ingeneousMoment6584
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Aug 8, 2019
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Like a moth to the flame, codependency is often exhausting, with feelings of hopelessness when everything you do is either never enough, or not quite right.
Learn to trust in others that they can take care of what they need to get done and that they can work their way through their own struggles.
You might like to try free or inexpensive online courses that can help break the pattern of behaviour. There may be informative videos from psychologists or counsellors that can help you understand ways to overcome it.
Start looking at ways that you can meet your own needs because often codependent people put off taking care of themselves, start with small things that you enjoy and then aim for larger goals.
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