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How to tell someone you're depressed without saying it?

Profile: PlumQueen2988
PlumQueen2988 on Oct 26, 2016
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Tell them how you're feeling lately, and why you're feeling this way. It should help your listener to put together the pieces to help you.
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Anonymous on Nov 2, 2016
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Is there a reason for you not wanting to say it how it is? I've noticed people don't really understand how serious my situation is, without me spelling it out for them. They think you're 'just down', if you don't mention the word 'depressed'. Do you feel like you can talk to this about people in a safe environment?
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Anonymous on Nov 18, 2016
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Sometimes there is no way to let them know without using the exact words. You could try using words to substitute 'depressed' such as worried, anxious or feeling insecure. Or you could open the conversation to the topic, without explicitly saying it, by leaning towards their feelings, they may ask you about yours too.
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EarlGreyHot on Nov 23, 2016
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Sometimes you can want to tell someone something, while a part of you is also afraid to say it. But it's not possible to tell someone something without saying it. If you're depressed, I advise you to tell people you can trust, even if it feels hard to do. If it's easier you could even write it down and give them a note instead of saying it out loud.
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shellcare on Nov 26, 2016
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Depression is a serious issue and is not a illness to play around with. If telling someone about your struggles crosses your mind at least once than you might feel the need to express yourself because you feel like you couldn't deal with it on your own. If you ever feel like you might need some help before it gets worse, tell someone.
Profile: LucyKech8
LucyKech8 on Dec 9, 2016
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You tell them about how you're feeling at the moment, to tell them what's been bothering you from time to time. See if they can do anything to help, don't say you're depressed because then that person would think that you're lying or a wannabe emo. Just tell them how you feel and everything will be fine. I promise you that buddy
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AgathaBritainbound on Jan 8, 2017
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It's not always easy to tell someone how you feel, especially someone who doesn't understand. But you need to make yourself heard and understood. Instead of just jumping in and saying you're depressed, try saying something like "I really feel down lately. I could use your support right now". Or try "I really could use someone to talk to right now about how I've been feeling." Most people do not understand depression or its impact on a persons' life. Take things slow. Help them to understand. It's the first baby step you need. Communication is the very lifeblood of any relationship.
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Anonymous on Feb 11, 2017
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You could simply say "I am not happy and I have not been happy for quite sometime now what should I do?"
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Anonymous on Feb 15, 2017
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For me, it's when I stop talking to them. Not because I want to, I just isolate myself when I get depressed.
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Anonymous on Feb 16, 2017
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Sometimes it's obvious through body language, movements, conversation etc. if you don't want to tell people that's fine however they may think you're off with them personally and take this to heart.
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