How to forgive yourself for hurting someone?
compassionateSunshine76
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Apr 8, 2016
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it's all about making ourselves comfortable in our own company by accepting all the guilt rather than blaming any other factor. which will be a miraculous thing that will led us to trust ourselves for not doing any wrong again and loving ourselves.with all the heart of forgiving and forgetting any worst had happened.
ImperfectlyPerfect
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Apr 8, 2016
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I find that, once you work out what caused you to hurt someone, and why you did it, it is much easier to realise whether or not you meant it. It's then a lot easier to forgive yourself.
Anonymous
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Apr 9, 2016
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Ask for their forgiveness. That would help you forgive yourself. Also, what is in the past is in the past. You cannot change it. :)
MusicHelpsBelieveMe
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Apr 23, 2016
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If you hurt someone, you automatticaly feel guilty. This is a human response but that shouldn't keep you from moving on. Making mistakes is only human and you will make a lot of them. You should however always try to reflect on what you did and if possibly make it okay again.
Luckyhottubsandwhiches
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Apr 27, 2016
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It just takes time, you have to remember we're all human, we all have flaws, and we're all equal. Even if we accidentally hurt someone or on purpose they won't remember it years down the road and they'll more than likely forgive you
Anonymous
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May 2, 2016
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I think the first thing you have to do, is to know what you have done, and see clearly that it was wrong? and then you have to exept your mistake and what you did. And if you hurted someone telling them sorry? Right, because in the second you saying sorry for what you have done you show the person, that you understand that, what you did was wrong or bad or at least that you regret it. And like many say, no mater how wrong or bad it was you have to see that is already done, and you can't do anything with the past , But you can do something with the future.. like not repate it:)
Anonymous
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May 5, 2016
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Broke a million hearts just for fun, guess who is lonely and pathetic with no cure on themselves
Anonymous
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May 5, 2016
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By apologizing to the person. Apologizing is really easy, just be sincere in your apology, also by trying to fix the mistakes you did and the bad things you have done to this person, so that you could feel less guilty and more happy, you never know that person might be happier than before.
Anonymous
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May 8, 2016
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Apologize that person you hurt, it will make ur side save, and if that person didnt accept the apology just be satisfied that u did ur part
SimplyBeing
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May 8, 2016
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Your question is worded perfectly. Feeling guilty only serves to make us feel better about something we have done without addressing the behavior that brought us to that point. For me at least, forgiving myself for hurting others means I have to accept that my actions caused the hurt. Facing what we did breaks its power over us and helps keep us from repeating our mistakes. One path is to believe that forgiving ourselves is a duty. We do it so we can be our best selves when we are with others. The only advice I ever give fits almost every situation. Whenever I am with someone I say to myself, "The person in front of me is important and their happiness matters." I hope you come to a place of peace with what happened. ~J
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