How to forgive yourself for hurting someone?
JeshuaMorbus
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Jan 18, 2018
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Standing up and asking for forgiveness to the one you harmed. You identify with your victim, because you don't want suffer the same they have suffered so, if you really feel that way, you should talk it with the one affected. You cannot achieve much by closing inside yourself.
Allerhelp12
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Jan 30, 2018
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let them go, and move on find someone and talk about your problems to them let it all go and maybe have freedom and feel better
PosiPotato
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Feb 4, 2018
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Try to re-channel your energy into how you can prevent this feeling in the future. What lessons were learned? What would you do differently in the future?
Anonymous
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Feb 7, 2018
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So many people struggle with exactly this. People always focus on the victims and sometimes forget that it can be just as difficult on the other end. Just remember this, as cliche as it might sound. You are going to mess up in life because everybody messes up. There you go: everybody makes mistakes. There's no use beating yourself up about it because you can't go back and undo it, you can only learn from it.
ArjunAttam
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Feb 8, 2018
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Nobody is perfect. Instead of feeling guilty we should try to work hard on not repeating the mistake
GxStephie
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Feb 9, 2018
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If possible, apologize to the person that you hurt. This may show the person that you regret hurting them, and they may forgive you. You yourself need to accept that you did something wrong but you must promise to not make the same mistake again.
awesomeHorizon02
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Feb 11, 2018
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Try to help people, youll see that you mafe more good than bad and youll feel great, also you can try to spend more time on volunteering as a listener at 7cups
CaptainObviouslyOblivious
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Feb 16, 2018
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So, what's done is done. You can't change what's already happened, so the best thing you can do for yourself is to pick yourself up, brush yourself off, make apologies that you mean and make sure to never repeat the same offenses. You have to accept the consequences to your actions, and although that may be hard, there's a certain kind of respect you grow for yourself living an authentic life.
Anonymous
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Feb 16, 2018
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First of all, accept that you have hurt them. Don't deny it forever. Accept it and apologise. Apologise to the person you hurt, because you hurt them and they deserve an apology. But also, apologise to yourself. Apologise for hurting someone and not being a kind person. Love yourself and others!
SamSammy12
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Feb 16, 2018
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Really look back at the situation. Is it actually your fault for the problem? If so, think of solutions of how to make it up to the other person. There's always forgiveness.
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