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Profile: grantvire
grantvire on Apr 27, 2017
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Make sure you apologise to them and then change your behaviour so you don't repeat it and understand what you did was wrong but that you're still learning and making an active effort to change. Everyone deserves second chances.
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Profile: Moonboii
Moonboii on Apr 28, 2017
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You don't need to make peace with that someone, You need to make peace with yourself. You need closure, and it's easier to establish closure if you turn the experience into a lesson. Sometime you don't get apologize after you've done something wrong, so make sure when you get the chance you take it. You are now in the unique position to appreciate every opportunity to apologize. That's a lesson you can feel good about, and it's a lesson few people will have learned as well as you. And you can still hold out hope that down the road the opportunity may present itself.
Profile: kindBeauty90
kindBeauty90 on May 14, 2017
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Consider it like this ; when someone hurts you and they apologise, you forgive them no matter hiw bad they've done to you because they've realise that what they've done is wrong ; you knew that whatever you did is awful everybody makes mistakes, now you should ask forgiveness from yourself, and you should be kind to yourself because you've come along way and there's no way what you have done could've been avoided.
Profile: friendlytalk
friendlytalk on May 14, 2017
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If i have hurted someone, the first thing is to realise the mistake and when you realise the same, its good to accept it and asking for an appology for the same and it will really feel much better after doing the same. :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 19, 2017
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Understand the motive behind what you did. Was there any other thing you could do at that time? Maybe,you did that because there was no other option or maybe because it was for the better. If you've this question in mind,then that means you've hurt yourself too by hurting that person,give yourself some time! Realise that its a hard thing and now that you've made up your mind, you will try to forgive yourself,slowly,step by step. Take care❤
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 19, 2017
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You've hurt someone in the past and you have difficulty in forgiving yourself yet, the fact remains that you cannot really control what has already happened and you will have to move on eventually. You will have to realise that, if the person has forgiven you, you deserve to forgive yourself as well
Profile: GentleTrixie
GentleTrixie on May 20, 2017
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Whenever I feel deeply bothered every time I hurt someone, I do these three steps. First, I try to remember what happened. Trying to recall the event makes me reconstruct how I should have acted to avoid hurting somebody. Second, I pray to God to give me the strength to do the last step. The final step is talking and apologizing to the person I have hurt. It takes courage and humility to do so, but it sure is very effective and helpful.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 20, 2017
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When we hurt someone intentionally or otherwise its normal and healthy to feel guilty. Forgiving yourself is important. You are only a human being and you made a mistake. Its not the end of life. Think about it. If someone else hurt you the way hurt the other and they were genuinely sorry then would you forgive them? If yes then you should forgive yourself too. We human beings are usually far more kinder with others than we are with our ownself. Learn to be kind to yourself.
Profile: blissfulEars16
blissfulEars16 on Jun 3, 2017
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Starts with openly admiring your hurt to another. Once you have forgiven yourself you must then ask the person you hurt to forgive you. Forgiveness is a powerful tool. You are able to release that weight that has been following you for sometime. You will find you are able to breath. Now just because you ask for forgiveness doesn't mean you will be forgiven. You have to be prepared for someone saying they don't forgive you. It may take them sometime or they may never fully forgive you. Understand that's their right. You can't force forgiveness. You have to be ready for that side of forgiveness. But as long as you have forgiven yourself and made the right decision to make your actions and choice right...then you are forgiven.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 7, 2017
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Think of others who may have forgiven you in your life and try and show yourself the same compassion you have been shown!
Profile: N0ah97
N0ah97 on Jun 8, 2017
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Say sorry, and then remind your self, that everybody makes mistakes. We do have to make mistakes to learn something. Accept that you've done something wrong, give your self time to be mad about it, but also give your self time to let it go.
Profile: heyitssoph126
heyitssoph126 on Jun 16, 2017
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Apologize sincerely to that person, try find a time & work it out w/them. Don't beat yourself up too hard over the matter. People make mistakes and as long as you learnt from it, that's another important point too :)
Profile: heartfulDancer89
heartfulDancer89 on Jun 19, 2017
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When you hurt someone and you feel guilty about it, that's already a good sign, it means that you are a person who is trying to do the best you can, trying to improve. Acknowledge that, and accept that you are a human being, allowed to make mistakes and to learn by them. Make sure that you learn something from the experience, and, if possible, do your best to help the person you hurt to heal (if they allow you to). Forgiveness is a feeling just as much as it is an action. Love yourself and embrace the fact that you're not a bad person, you only made a bad deed. That doesn't have to define you... It only has to teach you how to do better next time. You can't change the past, but you can build a better future.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 25, 2017
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For me it's important to apologize to the person you hurt and make very clear that you regret it. For forgiving myself I promise to myself that it won't happen again and make sure I understand why I did it so I can prevent that situation from happening again.
Profile: shadygirl0526
shadygirl0526 on Jul 7, 2017
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Acceptance. Accept all your mistakes. Do you feel guilty enough? Have you tried to approach them to explain yourself?
Profile: Maddlyyy
Maddlyyy on Jul 13, 2017
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Understand you're only human. We all make mistakes and everyone has the chance to be forgiven. Don't be afraid to apologize to them.
Profile: Journey2Healing
Journey2Healing on Jul 21, 2017
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It can be very hard to forgive others, but often it is hardest to forgive ourselves. We are often so hard and critical of ourselves. I think that it's important for you to remember that beating yourself up over something that has happened is not going to solve the situation. However, when you forgive yourself and learn to accept the things you can't change, it'll help you become happier. I recommend the 7 Cups guide on forgiveness.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 21, 2017
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It takes some time to heal sadly. Just do what you can to apologise to the person and try and make things right again and you'll start to feel better after some time has passed and it becomes water under the bridge
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 23, 2017
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Take the responsibility, empathise and think about why it happened. Then you are ready to be forgiven
Profile: pantspants
pantspants on Aug 18, 2017
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In my personal experience, it was hard to forgive myself, a lot of people will say with time it will come, but with time not only do we realize what we have done but it necessary we give ourselves that, if we try to forgive ourselves right away it may be hard, it was what I did and it took time, we should let it come to us and journal down or mock draft our feelings about the situation daily to see how it changes.
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