How to forgive yourself for cheating or lying?
Anonymous
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Apr 6, 2017
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It's not easy to ever forgive yourself for doing things like that, but all you can do is apologize to that person and you learn from your mistakes. Make sure you see how things went wrong and why you did what you did and avoid ever doing that again. Remember don't do things you wouldn't want someone doing to you.
IcarusFalls
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Apr 8, 2017
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Well, firstly you should try to understand that what you did was inherently wrong and is not an act that should be repeated.
The best way to forgive yourself for doing something like that could be simply owning up to someone about it.
What's done is done and you cannot reverse it. But you can understand that it wasn't something that you should be doing and make a solemn promise to yourself to abstain from it from now on.
Remember that all people make mistakes and don't feel too guilty or loose sleep over it.
Honestly, just give yourself another chance to prove yourself.
Work hard for something and then get the happiness which accompanies it rather than the guilt of cheating or lying.
fancifulPainting19
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Apr 9, 2017
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We are humans and we do commit mistakes. The realisation of your mistakes for cheating or lying is one thing that makes us a better person. We should forgive ourselves for the betterment of us and not keep blaming ourselves. Its life. Learn to accept your faults and move on learning from them. This is how we grow.
Anonymous
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Apr 13, 2017
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Remind yourself that what you did was wrong and that you learned from it to be a better person. You're human, everyone makes mistakes. You grown from this experience and become a better person.
Anonymous
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Apr 14, 2017
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Learn from this mistake and promise yourself to not do this again. I know it's hard but surely you would let go of this thoughts and continue on with your life. It will pass.
Anonymous
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Apr 21, 2017
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We are all human, no one is perfect. Therefore we will do things like cheating and lying. We can forgive ourselves by realizing that we do this and we are not evil or vicious... but maybe we have a reason for doing it
iare34
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May 21, 2017
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We all make mistakes. Sometimes when you lie or cheat, you just have to accept the fact that you made a mistake, and you are not the only one who feels this way. sometimes its okay to confess your mistake, and it will take a lot of weight off your shoulders. try not to be so hard on yourself.
Personalvendetta
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Jun 2, 2017
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Attraction and curiosity are basic human emotions and feelings. Mistakes are natural, everyone makes them. Taking these things into account, if you cheated while in a relationship or lied about something to a loved one, living and learning is the most important thing to remember. Everyone can make mistakes and feel bad about them. But when you think about how you can learn from the mistakes and teach yourself techniques with self control it can make for betterness in the future.
Anonymous
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Jun 7, 2017
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Ask for forgiveness from the person you have cheated or lied too. It might help you forgive yourself.
Anonymous
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Jun 9, 2017
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Looking at myself in the mirror and tell myself about all the good things I've done that I can be proud of instead, and rather than thinking about what I have done wrong.
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