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How do I tell my parents I'm depressed?

Profile: strawberrySoul15
strawberrySoul15 on Nov 4, 2016
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Your parents loved you since the day you were born. Make them listen to you. Make them understand about how you feel about everything that makes you depressed.
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Profile: DaisyTalk
DaisyTalk on Nov 11, 2016
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I tell my parents I am depressed by telling them that I need a hug and I need them to help to make the pain go away.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 11, 2016
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Sit them down and just be completely honest. They may not understand what you are feeling, but they will find someone who can help you. However, if you feel like you cannot tell your parents, tell an adult you trust.
Profile: mahayana
mahayana on Nov 12, 2016
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Sometimes, the best way to tell your parents that you are feeling depressed is not to label it right away. Let them know what feelings you are experiencing. Have you lost interest in things that previously brought you joy? Is it hard to get out of bed? Let them know about those things. "Depression" is a scary word that can lose meaning, but once your parent knows what that looks like and how it's effecting you, they will be able to provide you with the support you need.
Profile: TransMan1003
TransMan1003 on Jan 9, 2017
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Well, I myself struggle with depression, about a year ago I went to my mom showing her the cuts she had noticed and wait for me to come to her about, I tried to vent to her but it was hard because I did not want her to feel bad or as if it was her fault, but I needed help, so I think the best way to tell your parents, if you have supportive parents, is to be open with them and tell them how you feel and whats going on in your life
Profile: ClAiRe123456
ClAiRe123456 on Jan 22, 2017
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It sometimes may seem scary or daunting to tell your parents about depression, but it's better to do so. Try telling them you have something important to talk to them about and then maybe talk about how you've been feeling lately. Then, tell them you think you have depression and would like professional help. This is nothing to be embarrassed about! You will feel better about yourself after telling them.
Profile: avanef
avanef on Feb 1, 2017
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Best thing to do is just tell them. Let them know your mental health isn't the best and you don't like suffering and being in pain. The last thing you, your parents and just about anyone would like to know is that your depression caused an irrational action upon your life. I've yet to find someone or something to 'cure' or stop depression, it's a psychological thing in our lives, some have it worse than others and I just think the best thing for you to do is do tell them, they might help you realize some things, or even get a medical opinion on whole matter, But do please, speak to them about it, your mental health is a very important thing and people on 7 Cups will always be there for you and care about you.
Profile: bubblegumTree13
bubblegumTree13 on Feb 25, 2017
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It depends on how receptive your parents are. Thus you need to tell your parents at a time when they are most receptive to you, perhaps during or after dinner when they are relaxed. Start off with, "Daddy I need your help" or "Mummy can I share something with you."
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 4, 2017
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I just come out and say it. I have learned from the past that expressing myself and being honest is the best way to go. Beating around the bush and pretending or ignoring was unhealthy for me. I usually express my current emotions and why I am depressed. Even though my mom thinks she knows all the answers as to why I am depressed - it just makes me feel better that I expressed this to her.
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Anonymous on Mar 15, 2017
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Sometimes asking to have a peaceful sit down with your parents and telling them what's been going on for you lately and that you're feeling depressed can help.
Profile: Food4Thought
Food4Thought on Apr 21, 2017
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Have a family meeting. Make sure all distractions (tv, phones) are away so the focus can be on you. Understand that it's normal to feel this way. The important thing is you want to get better. And sometimes the support from our family is what it takes. They're a resource you can always turn to, and it will mean a lot to them to know that you care enough about yourself and them to ask them for their love and support in such a difficult time.
Profile: Naturalheartedxo
Naturalheartedxo on Apr 22, 2017
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Take it slow and be prepared for a few questions. Let them know everything you do the help when it gets bad, they care so much about you and only want to help you suceed in life! They will support you the best they can, it's scary for them too. Just remember that talking really does help but letting people know can also provide you with support when you need it the most!
Profile: furrylittlefox
furrylittlefox on Apr 22, 2017
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This can be tricky because people respond differently to everything. So when talking with your parents about this I'd suggest being open/aware of the different reactions they may have. You can always write it down if you fear the direct confrontation and giving them the letter.
Profile: warmVision
warmVision on May 4, 2017
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Some parents often underestimate the state of depression, thinking of it as something "that will pass". I believe trying openly to express and explain how you feel to them. Make them understand what you're going through.
Profile: ThePhoenixRising
ThePhoenixRising on May 14, 2017
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Sitting down face to face and asking your parents for help is a great way to open your conversation to them. Your parents want you to feel safe and happy in life and your asking them for help is showing them you trust them with this information. We all hear stories from our friends and family that are sometimes interesting and sometimes not so much but when we have a loved one coming to us asking for help our first reaction is to listen to them. Your parents are the same and under everything their job is protect and help you.
Profile: Lightning18
Lightning18 on Jun 3, 2017
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It's definitely not an easy conversation to have. Start off by sitting them down and getting rid of any distractions, as it's a serious conversation. Tell them about how you've been feeling lately, but also that it isn't their fault (unless it actually is their fault, in which case you should still be very polite). If it helps, you could also just write them a letter.
Profile: 1life1fate
1life1fate on Jun 9, 2017
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I would just be honest with them and talk to whoever your closest with and explain to them about how you have been feeling lately
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 17, 2017
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Your parents will always want the best for you and they will be concerned about your wellbeing. Being honest with them about your emotional state is the best thing we can do. If they can not understand what depression exactly is, we need to express our feelings the best as we can.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 23, 2017
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If your parents are people you are close to and that you trust, who you feel have your best interests at heart, then I would take a deep breath and confide in them. I would tell them what you are feeling and experiencing and ask whether they would help you get professional treatment. It's scary to do this type of thing, but once it is done, you'll feel a lot better.
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Anonymous on Jun 24, 2017
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If you feel too nervous to talk to them then maybe try writing your feelings down and giving it to them. It will also allow them to read and let things sink in so that if it is a shock for them they have time to process how you're feeling.
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