How do I stop being judgemental?

You should try to see others as human. When i say this, what i mean by it is that when someone makes a mistake know they are only human and its natural. You make mistakes and so do others. If you are judgemental about appearance or personality, know they feel the exact same as you. Maybe they have confidence issues and you should try to understand that. No one is perfect and no one should judge anyone. We are all the same.

The urge to judge others is a tough one to overcome for a lot of us. Try to respect that everyone is on their own journey and how you would like being judged.

for me I always try to put myself in there shoes and imagine what they are going through, maybe behind the scenes as some people hide how they are feeling and I imagine that me judging them is just going to make them feel worse.

You won't. Everyone is judgemntal. You can be more tolerant but that's all. Use that judgment to avoid making loser friends or wasting time with wrong ppl.

Try to paying more attention to your thoughts. A lot of our thoughts are automatic, so judgement might come up without much thought. By being aware of your thoughts you can analyze your thought patterns. Ask yourself, is this thought helpful? Is it necessary? Sometimes all it takes is being more aware of the judgmental patterns.

Don't care so much about other's opinions. Worry about yourself but don't ever judge yourself too. Stay positive!

Look at it in someone elses shoes , how would you feel if someone called you ugly or fat or not popular enough. Would you feel happy or depressed. so next time if you are judge-mental think about how you would feel!

Stop and put yourself in their shoes. How would you react to the way their life is going. And do you really know how their life is going? Usually it's easy to assume someone lives a life they lead on to others, but it can be much deeper than that. Just remember that you don't know what someone could be going through and it's important to be kind to others regardless of what you think you may know.

Learn to get to know people better before making any sort of assumptions, the same way you wouldn't appreciate having someone judging you, hold on to that feeling and use it to not judge someone else before you are decently introduced to them.

Remember that no one is perfect. there are flaws in everyone and were all human we all feel what you feel,