How do I stop being judgemental?

Place yourself in the other person's shoes. Imagine someone criticizing you for every little act, how does that make you feel? Remember that people have feelings too, and that these matter.

Growing up in an aristocratic society I was born being judgemental. But, as we experience life, we realize that there is more to people than the outer cover they wear. We learn that not everyone thinks, dresses, acts, looks, or lives life one specific way. We stop being judgemental when we start being more understanding.

It's human nature to make snap judgments. But when you find yourself being judgmental of someone, just pretend they're you. How would you feel if you knew someone else was having unkind thoughts about you? Probably not so great. So just try to think thoughts about other people that you would hope they'd think about you. And remember that everyone is human and has a story. In short, if you just try to use empathy and avoid dehumanizing people, that will help you to be a lot less judgmental.

It is important to put yourself in the other person's shoes and think whether you would felt good being judged,

View everyone with an open mind. Do not judge a person by their skin, sex, clothing or anything else. Until you know them personally, you will never know what they are truly like.

You need to look yourself first. All the bad and the good things. Like there is no day without night we are not perfect. Learn acept yourself and others too.

By judging ourselves once having a thought judging others. Looking our weaknesses and failures instead of thinking about other's.

Realize that you are no better than anyone. You have flaws, insecurities, secrets, you've made mistakes, people have laughed at you behind your back. Neither you, I, or anyone else has room to judge anyone. We're all in the same boat. Humble yourself.

Though there are many ways to stop being judgmental one of the most common is to picture yourself as the one being judged. Therefore, showing the fact that if you don't like to be judged neither does anyone else.

Become more aware of what triggers lead you to judge others. When you determine what these triggers are begin to challenge your judgments by asking yourself what actual evidence there is to back up this judgement and what evidence is lacking.