WishfulWhiskers
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Feb 22, 2018
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It can be very easy to pass judgement on others, but often assumptions are incorrect, or simply unkind and unnecessary. We never know exactly what someone else is experiencing and without intimate knowledge of the person, we have absolutely no idea why they behave a certain way or respond in a particular fashion.
Try to put yourself in their shoes and realise that perhaps that person is having a terrible day, or perhaps that person dresses this way because that is what makes them feel comfortable.
Everyone is entitled to respect and support, and I believe that you should do unto others as you would like done to yourself.
Have a lovely day.
Anonymous
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Feb 22, 2018
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Try to place yourself in the shoes of those you judge. How would you feel being judged? As long as you keep trying you are doing a great job. Try to recollect moments you've judged and been wrong. To try and convince yourself that it's not a helpful attribute. Good luck!! Xx
MissesOliver
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Feb 22, 2018
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I've always heard you are not accountable for the first thought that pops into your head, but the second is what you choose to think. Try stopping and thinking about other's situations before judging them.
SunOfMyLife
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Feb 23, 2018
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Every day, compliment somebody on something. Even if it is outrageous or silly. It will help open yourself up to people.
SolidusYen1993
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Feb 25, 2018
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It is HARD to not be judgemental in general. I mean, we are all humans and inherently judgemental by nature. But it does help to keep an objective mindset before jumping the gun and assuming anything about a situation or a person, etc. It helps to keep an open mind because in reality you have no idea if these judgements will affect the person. I will go as far as to reference telltale games and confirm to you all that "silence is a valid option" indeed.
mthilliard
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Feb 28, 2018
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Be able to express empathy to people beyond your immediate family/close friends. There's a word to keep in mind that may help.
"sonder
n. the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own—populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries and inherited craziness—an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you’ll never know existed, in which you might appear only once, as an extra sipping coffee in the background, as a blur of traffic passing on the highway, as a lighted window at dusk."
Everyone has their own problems that they hide from the world, but it's difficult to use that idea in real life situations to try to understand people. It takes practice like anything else.
LearningEmpathy
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Mar 3, 2018
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Empathy, If you are feeling emotional and judging because of that slowdown, and take a breather. Then try and see things from their side. They are a person just like you except their experiences are different. If you think about what they have seen compared to what you have seen you will be able to understand them. This is the first step into not being judgemental but probably the most important.
Engineeringhappiness
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Mar 9, 2018
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start thinking of the positive side of things. think of how important people are to you and how you can help them
Anonymous
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Mar 12, 2018
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This question is a little bit hard because as human being its out tendency to judge. But to stop being judgemental you have to try to step into the shoes or let's say imagine yourself in their situation to have a better understanding of what they are going through. Those shoes may not for you though.
Molot3140
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Mar 14, 2018
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I don't think there's a way to stop judging people... However, there is a righteous way to judge people rather than to just judge someone. A righteous way to judge someone would be to look at their good works and positive side rather than to look at the deficiencies that a person has. As a wise man once said "all those who look for the beauty of a rose, shall surely find it. But those who look at the imperfections thereof will surely point out the thorns."
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