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How do I stop being judgemental?

Profile: seriously111
seriously111 on Jul 30, 2017
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Try and put yourself in the person's shoe you are trying to judge, what if something like that happened to you, what would you feel? Try and think that they may have a different side of the story and justify what they did.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 11, 2017
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What I would like to point out is that it is basic human nature to form judgments about people subconsciously without even realizing it. The way to tackle this situation would be to remind yourself that there might be just a chance that the person is more than what you see and to avoid letting your judgments get in the way of knowing someone who might end up becoming a person you care about.
Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 on Aug 12, 2017
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it helps to stop being judgemental if we try to understand that others might be reacting in a certain way because they are struggling too with things like we might do and to accept that our standards are only valid for us, simply accepting we all have positive and negative sides.
Profile: gracefulLight67
gracefulLight67 on Sep 2, 2017
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Being judgmental is from ignorance of a situation or person . The only way to be less judgmental is to try to see things from different view points and with empathy .
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 16, 2017
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The shortest and easiest answer I can give you is to remember that everyone is trying their best. It might not always seem like it, and maybe some days your best is better than their best, but we're all just trying to make it with whatever tools and energy we have at any given time.
Profile: adoredHug70
adoredHug70 on Sep 18, 2017
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You should look beyond the skin. You should value someone's soul instead of all their worldly characteristics. You should remember that all of us die the same and no one of us is superior to the other if you focus on caring about the personality of someone instead of other things.
Profile: SunnyKitten17
SunnyKitten17 on Sep 20, 2017
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I don't think there's any way to just "stop" being judgemental. But one trick I'm using currently is to try and think of a good thing about every person I meet - and also, to catch myself when I judge them, out loud or in my head, and gently correct it to something nicer.
Profile: tjb28
tjb28 on Oct 5, 2017
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Think about how it would make you feel if someone was judging you How would you feel? How would you feel if someone judged your family member? Think about the reason why you judge others
Profile: brightFish45
brightFish45 on Oct 14, 2017
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Put yourself in their shoes, ask yourself would I want to be treated that way? Sometimes people don't choose to be who they are and they are given a bad hand in life. The only thing they need from you is kindness and understanding. Not your judgement calls or criticism . Please be kind and don't pass judgement . You may save someone's life
Profile: SympatheticRainbow
SympatheticRainbow on Nov 2, 2017
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Being judgemental is something we all experience. To become someone who wants to support others; you must put these judgements aside and take a minute to visualise yourself as them. How would you feel in that situation? Along with considering the other individuals. It's natural to have prejudices and judgements about someone, it's a social thing we have been taught from an early age, but meeting more diverse people and understanding what makes them individuals is important to break the barriers. Under our backgrounds and everything we've come across in life; we are all still human beings.
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