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How do I stop being judgemental?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 4, 2017
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Sometimes just making a conscious effort to try and see things from others point of view. Personally I do not struggle for money and know that my family would help me if I needed it. Not everyone has that and I struggled to understand why some people to lengths such as illegal activity to get money. I had to put myself in their shoes. They didn't have family that had the money to help or maybe they did but the family chose not to help them. Getting a job was hard, or anything else. Always try to see things from other peoples perspective.
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Profile: blissfulRose17
blissfulRose17 on Jun 4, 2017
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Just listen and just concentrate on what the person is saying without focusing on anything else just be a good listener I will remember that you not the one with the situation to be judged upon and if you do not like to be judged yourself do not think the other person wants to be judged as well treat the person like you would want to be treated
Profile: GenuineRachel
GenuineRachel on Jun 24, 2017
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Start realising that everyone underneath are all the same, no one deserves to be judged, everyone walks the same planet, the majority of people see the same thing and feel the same feelings. We are all human when it comes down to it
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 28, 2017
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By remembering that each one of us is going through some sort of problem in life. No one has the perfect life without any kind of difficulty.
Profile: nerdtimes10
nerdtimes10 on Jul 12, 2017
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A person's first thought or reaction does not define them. It's what comes after. When you think something judgmental, try putting yourself in their shoes.
Profile: Maddlyyy
Maddlyyy on Jul 13, 2017
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Place yourself in other people's shoes. Think and imagine how they would feel in this situation and understand they are doing their best despite their circumstances.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 13, 2017
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In our society and culture, judgement has been practiced and taught. It's very hard to get past being judgemental, but it is possible. When you find yourself consciously or unconsciously making a judgment, try to put yourself in their shoes. Remind yourself that there is more than one way to be beautiful or smart or whatever it is that you're judging. Practice love instead of hate. Try to see the thing that you're judging in a new light. Search for good things instead of flaws.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 14, 2017
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Before you judge. Think about what good it will do to you or the person you are judging or how it will benefit you. The answer will be always 'nothing'.
Profile: N0vaNobody
N0vaNobody on Jul 26, 2017
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The philosophical answer: put yourself in their shoes and keep in mind that we all have our differences, and that we must learn to overcome them. The hard truth? You can't. Even though we like to think ourselves superior, we are still humans, and it's in our nature to judge another's worth based on appearances; there is no fault in judging another for what they seem to be. However, there is a reason humans are seemingly separate from the rest of the animal kingdom: even though it is part of our chemical makeup to judge someone, we can choose to ignore those judgements. You don't have to forget them, and it doesn't matter whether you try and stop them--the things you choose to do despite the judgements you have are what's really important.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 30, 2017
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It's difficult to stop, once you're conditioned to notice things about people, but one way that I stopped is to realise that people are presenting what they're comfortable with, and it's none of my business whether that fits in with my life code or not. Also remember that we never really know a full picture, people are complex and there are levels to everything. Why unnecessarily impart additional negativity when it is not needed. To each their own.
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