How do I stop being judgemental?

Try to look at things from the other persons point of view. Never assume that you know everything going on in that persons life. You never know if they could be having battles of their own.

1.) try to see the situation from the other's point of view 2.) try to label the emotions you are hearing 3.) keep in mind that a problem you hear from someone may not be a big deal to you, but it is very real for that particular person--it is their reality.

Try putting yourself in other people's shoes. Try to empathize with the situation you are feeling judgemental about. It helps me to think of the issue as being connected with someone close to me. Would I still feel that way if it was my daughter? Or my best friend? My father?

Sometimes the way we react to things or the views we have on certain subjects is due to how we have been nurtured... However, what I tend to do is to try and put myself In that persons shoes and view their choices and actions from their perspective... We can never truly understand what a person is going through until we have experienced it ourselves x

Take a moment to consider who you're judging and why. Is it because of the person themselves or issues you might have had with them previously? Or is it what they're doing that you're judging? To stop acting a certain way, you must first understand the thought process behind it.

Every time you think of a judgement, imagine how you would feel if someone was saying it about you. Everyone has a story, their own personal lives. At the end of the day we're all human, we're all struggling to get by and we're all a little different in doing that. One thing that helped me to stop being judgemental was to tell myself that I could be friends with anyone. I imagine that I have at least one interest in common with every single human on earth. It reminds me that no matter what, we are all together and it gives me a great joy to support and make people happy, rather than judge them for something that makes them happy or who they are.

Remember that you can only ask from someone what they are able to give back. You can't ask them to be better if they are not able to. Put yourself in their place, and remember of your own mistakes, and that you are also not perfect.

I believe judgement starts with yourself. Once I was able to stop criticizing myself and start accepting who I am, I noticed it reflect the way I treated those around me. A great place to start is complimenting at least one thing about the person, whether out loud or just mentally. You have to start somewhere.

First, decide what's being judgemental and what's not; calling people out for being problematic is something we can all do and should do; don't lose that integrity of yourself. As for being judgemental yourself; catch yourself out and try to change your thoughts; think about why that person is doing what they're doing and that your thoughts don't matter. You can have your first thought be judgmental but then change your thought; the first thought is what society raised you to be, the second is who you are. Say any kind thing that comes to mind; someone's got amazing contour? They're good at English? Tell them. Make compliments and what you like about things or what you can understand about why the person is doing the thing; never under estimate empathy. Try to work out were the judgement comes from; perceptions of groups, standards you set for yourself, so on. If something about them isn't obviously a fashion choice and can't be fixed with a quick glance and smudge with a finger, don't tell them- it's probably a choice they've made themselves. Try to centre your compliments around talents, personality, style, hobbies, integrity, or hard work of someone (anything from makeup to school work) they have as appose to they're base appearances such as nose, body shape (that they don't clearly workout) and so on; it'll help you focus more on the person and not their appearances or wealth.

If you listen with your heart and not go on your feelings, makes it easier not to judge, because people need to feel we are here for them because we don't know what their situation is, and who are we to judge. We all have skeletons in the closet and shouldn't judge someone because they sin differently then we do, but show love and compassion regardless of what their circumstance and situation is.