How do I stop being judgemental?

By remembering that you don't have the right to judge. Just because something is different doesn't mean you're worthy to place judgement.

Think about life moments in which you have found yourself experiencing something you had never expected to live/feel. Perhaps infidelity, or being rude with someone you love, or suddenly reject something you used to love. Life is challenging, don't be sure you would never do/feel/think the experience the member is talking about

Try to understand that everybody has a past which has lead them to their present self. They might have had a really hard time and acting the way they do now is a coping mechanism. Or their behaviour has changed through no fault of their own. Your own happiness does not come from judging other people. Try focussing on yourself and how to see things differently from their point of view. We don't like to be judged ourselves so it's important to remember judging other people will hurt their feelings just as much.

Oh this one hits a nerve. I never realized I WAS HORRIBLY JUDGEMENTAL. I had that whole "wow how can this person be so stupid, ignorant, poor etc?" going on and didn't even know it! I think you HAVE to keep it in the front of your mind. it takes work. When you meet someone STOP, clear your mind. Listen to them. Try to just take them in, without the judgement your mind might be making. Ask your self why they are the way they are. Try to see it from their point of view. When you stop putting labels all over people you open yourself up to meeting and enjoying so many new and exciting times!

Try putting yourself in their shoe. Ask yourself if someone told me this or thought of me like how I am thinking thing of the person before me, wouldI like it? If the answer is no, then maybe you should not speak to them in that manner or refrain yourself to do so because everyone is fighting a battle you don't know about. Be kind. Always.

Many people know prejudice is wrong, but end up trapped in bigoted thought patterns. Wanting to change is good, as it's important to learn to value people from all walks of life. To start, work on altering your perspective. Learn about the roots of prejudiced thoughts and how you can become more aware of your preconceived notions about others. From there, try to change how you view others. Work on reminding yourself people are more alike than different. Lastly, take steps to expand your worldview. Travel to a far away place or get involved in your community.

There is no human being that does not judge. Willy or nilly we judge people or things everyday. But what we need to do is stop and reflect to ourselves and say 'wow wait a bit, why am I doing, I am not supposed to do this'. That is when you start being less judgemental

A way to stop being judgmental is to try to understand the person. Maybe its just there personality or maybe they like that piece of clothing or maybe that's there favorite hobby. Everyone is different and you have to understand that.

It could help to imagine being in the other person's shoes, for example if you usually resort into judgemental behavior towards gays, imagine being hated on for loving who you love

Judgements are made because we have an idea of how things should be. It can help to listen, turn to wonder when you don't understand or when something is different than expected, ask questions, and try to find common ground.