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How do I stop being jealous of others success?

Profile: Lotus48
Lotus48 on Jan 14, 2016
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Find your niche in life and what motivates you. Ask yourself what you are interesting in addition to putting things into action.
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Profile: allnatural
allnatural on Jan 17, 2016
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You should start looking at it in a different manner. Try being happy for the people that suceeded. And if you are jealous because you wish you acomplished something try harder at whatever it is thst you are doing. Write scheduals for yourself. Have breaks. Eat healthily.
Profile: WrenGS
WrenGS on Jan 20, 2016
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First, stop beating yourself up. Being jealous is a totally natural reaction. We're capable of simulatenously being happy for someon's success and wishing that we had the same successes happen to us. So, don't judge yourself too harshly. Secondly, remember no one's life path is the same. Take two or three famous or successful people you admire, and read their bios: I bet the way each of them attained their success was totally different than the others. The same holds true for everyone! They way you'll attain your success won't be like how anyone else did it, so, you can't compare yourself to them. You can only, honestly, compare yourself to yourself. Look at how you are doing with your own goals, and measure how well you are doing with realistically moving towards them. If you find you have stalled, use the jealousy you feel to re-energize yourself to get moving again, revise your plans, or try something new.
Profile: morgendorffer
morgendorffer on Jan 24, 2016
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To envy others. Yes, I used to be jealous, not white, and black envy, I could not talk with the person or get angry at him for what was just jealous of his success. But as you grow older, you realize how foolish you were, I could not communicate with the person because of his success. I think it's not easy not to be jealous. But I did it. When you're successful and your friends and family are so happy for you, you know, how silly do you have to be to be jealous of others success and victories. Focus on their successes and ignore others. And rejoice in their successes and victories, even if they are not as high as others.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 25, 2016
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know that each one of us is unique and successful in a certain but different thing. moreover, you can always reach success if you work hard.
Profile: Scarlettskyblue
Scarlettskyblue on Jan 27, 2016
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Put that energy into pushing yourself forward, one small goal at a time. This will help help you focused.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 27, 2016
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tell yourself that you will have great success too. The more you focus on others people success the more it will eat you alive and get you more jealous. Whatever you want to do in life you go for it and strive for that success, put your mind to it. Dont let your jealousy stop you from being successful you can do it.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 29, 2016
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Focus on yours because yours is all you have and everybody's success have been taken so work on yours and be better them
Profile: MalignantLove
MalignantLove on Jan 29, 2016
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Set goals for yourself, and do whatever you have to do to accomplish those goals and achieve the level of success that you feel so jealous of others for having.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 29, 2016
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Stay positive. Believe that their success wont effect yours. Take everyone as your friend, then you will be happy at their success.
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