How do I keep myself from getting to attached to people?

I will say this to myself, 'you live your own life. he does, she does, they do, I do. They may help you, but they may not. They have their own life. So, get yourself together. Whatever happens, it's all yours'

A good way to not get reliant on another person is to find your own strength, and to realize that you can always come back to yourself and find your own support through outlets such as art, writing, gaming, etc.

I try my best to foster relationships that allow me to get deeply attached, and in turn I keep myself open for them to get attached to me. I remind myself that if there’s a reason I don’t want to get attached, it’s almost always for the best that I don’t.

We get attached to people sometimes because we seek their attention.When we start to be more independent and can be happy without seeking attention , then we can to an extent avoid too much attachment towards people .

Why do you want to keep yourself from getting attached to people? If the people surrounding you don't deserve your attachment maybe is time for you to find some other people, some that deserve you, some that would make you feel appreciated and some that would make you feel like.you.want to be attached to them. Is time.for.you.to.pay a very close look at your life and why do you choose to.put yourself in the situations that you do. Wish you all the best and life is meant to be shared and lived with love.

I have found that the easiest thing for me to do is to give myself some space and to ask myself, Why am I getting so attactched? A god self check in has always done the trick for me.

Sometimes I find myself wanting to continue an interaction when it is clear that the person has finished talking about their problem, If you find yourself asking personal questions that have nothing to do with what the person originally wanted to talk about its okay to end the conversation.

From my experiences of break ups and heart break I feel the best way to overcome strong feelings for someone is to avoid seeing their activity on social media. Social media doesn’t portray real life and will only build jealously and frustration. Also focus on you and your self improvement. Set yourself goals. For example learn to play guitar, start going to the gym, take up baking. You will see your self improvement and boost your self esteem. As you get more and more into your new hobby you will also find yourself thinking of that person less.

Make a lot of new friends and hang out with them and you wont be too attached because you’ll have them friends and your other friends

value people, talk to them, help them and you have to trust yourself. it is not hard to build sincere friendships, start smiling