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How can I stop hating everyone?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 25, 2015
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It can be tough to find ways to like people sometimes, especially if they are the source of letting you down or making you hurt. It also doesn't help to be bombarded with negative junk in the media. I find it helpful to focus on the people who do good things and who make you feel better. Distance yourself from negativity when you can so you have time to heal and make a point to surround yourself in good things. Further, be the best you you can be, even if you're tired or cranky. Find a way to remind yourself to practice compassion. The more you practice it, the more likely you will be to be able to find it. And if you can find compassion, focus on that to overcome your hatred.
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Profile: Waterbear
Waterbear on Jun 18, 2015
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There are basically two ways: the first one is if someone or someones suddenly magically starts being nice to you, often enough that you don't feel starved and bitter anymore. That one's nice but it doesn't happen that often and you can't make it happen, although you can ask for help. The second way is easier to do but not as effective--that's where you help someone else. When you do that, they're grateful to you (hopefully) and you feel better about yourself and like you can make some kind of connection, which makes you feel less bitter and resentful.
Profile: mike251
mike251 on Feb 29, 2016
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I think you can be more open to people and their cultures. Become more aware of what you hate about people, and try to be conscious in changing that.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 25, 2016
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It isn't really everyone else you hate per say. It's more you hate of everyone due to anxiety, the way to overcome this as I know many have is to overcome your anxiety and then begin going to social events e.g. Sports
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Anonymous on Jun 26, 2018
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Broaden your mind by letting people from different backgrounds in to learn appreciation and love for people of different backgrounds.
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Anonymous on Apr 16, 2015
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I don't understand in which way you hate everyone come talk to me if you would like to. http://www.7cups.com/11565174
Profile: Bcrystal818
Bcrystal818 on May 2, 2015
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You can stop hating everyone first by loving yourself. You normally put feelings outward from the feelings you have on the inside.
Profile: HelpWisely
HelpWisely on May 8, 2015
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By first learning to love yourself totally and accepting yourself totally without any judgment, condemnation or fear.
Profile: Philocalist
Philocalist on Sep 8, 2015
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when you start loving yourselves :)
Profile: olimaar
olimaar on Oct 27, 2015
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Try to put yourself in their shoes. Get to know them better. Knowing somebody helps you feel more compassion for them and gives a sense of empathy.
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