How can I stop being a pushover?

Don't be intimidated by others. Listen to your heart first. If you don't like something don't do it. Keep yourself some private space.

Learn to say no. Start with small things. Things people don't really care if you say no to. Gain confidence in your ability to say no. Learn to not feel guilty saying no. Then when people try to push you into something you don't want to do. Be firm, look at them and say "No."

I was a pushover. Was which meant I used to be. Its a terrible thing but it can be cured if not controlled. I personally having been one and knowing how it is to be the pushover and the pusher, think we should be strong. Mentally. If we are strong and confident, we can stand up for ourselves without giving in to fear. We also have to have it in us to stop being one. If you are not willing to do yourself justice then it wont work. Remember we can all do it. Just try and believe you can. Think through the one pushing you around's perspective and see why she/he is pushing you around. Identify and talk with that person. Speak it out. If it doesnt, be assertive,stand up and build up the courage to do so. Its not easy. It will take time but it will be worth it. Trust me. If it still doesnt work, try speaking to a adult like a teacher or a parent. Hope this help.

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First of all start out small it can be hard but try to say "no" but if you don't want to do something or if you don't agree with someone try to say "no" or "I think (what you think)" . Than thing will get better and than later it should come naturally and you can be more assertive.

Being a pushover doesn't mean you're weak and it's not a bad thing sometimes you have to appreciate yourself and stop being that person that always being pushed around. Sometimes being a pushover can actually damage your health and life but it's up to you to make that decision to not be that person

By recognizing your self worth! You need to respect yourself and acknowledge that you are worth so much more than other people may give you credit for. Once you can stand tall and strong, others will see this confidence and follow suit!

It is not easy to just stop being a pushover and some people never stop but they do learn how to be less of a pushover. One thing is to gain self confidence and self esteem. Many times both play a role in this situation. A person may not have the self confidence to say stop or no because they are afraid of coming off as mean. But, the person needs to think of themselves and take care of themselves first before saying yes to others. It is a difficult thing to do. I still sometimes have trouble saying no because I often feel that others need my help more than I need it. But you need to set boundaries, that is the first step. If you need to do something for yourself, and someone else is asking for help, take care of yourself first and let the person know you need to do that.

Some people find it is hard to stop being what you'd call "a pushover" because they feel like they have to be a people pleaser. Some people find themselves feeling guilty if they stand up for themselves. Have you tried talking to family or friends about this? Maybe they can offer you advice on how you can learn to stand up for yourself in a polite way. Setting boundaries is a good way to feel like you can be there for people without being "a pushover". Setting boundaries can also help with self esteem and mental health. If you need help learning to set boundaries you can ask advice from a friend who's been through similar experiences of browse 7cups for more information

The starting point is first to find what you believe in . Often deciding what you want to do / to become /is the hardest part. Knowing what you want is linked to a strong sense of self identity. Try to become more self aware. After subsequently finding out what you want you can work on asserting that. You need to ask yourself why you allowing yourself to be a pushover? - is it due to lack of self importance ? The view / perception you have of the other individual? or is it through lack of communication assertiveness? Upon finding your inner self , stand by them , assert them and fully believe in them. Self belief and confidence will allow people to take onboard your input and view you as an assertive person.