How can I stop being a pushover?
DavidLee
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Dec 31, 2014
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I know its easier said than done, but you just need to get the courage to assert yourself. Stand up for you. I understand that's exactly what the problem is, but there isn't much of a better solution. Take it slow if you have to, start with small things, you're really busy and someone asks you to do a minor favor, just say no.
ForgottenDreams1
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Aug 17, 2015
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One way I learned to stop becoming a push over is.... I learned how to say no to people, even if they tried to make me feel guilty or sorry for them. I stopped putting other peoples and needs before my own.
Anonymous
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Jan 17, 2016
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Stop caring. Seriously, stop caring about the other person's life and what they are doing. Just accept their answer whether it is a lie or not.
Anonymous
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Jan 21, 2016
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Push over me? I dont think so. I am naturaly a person who does not let people push me however I am merciful
YoullNeverWalkAlone
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Jan 27, 2016
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The first step to stop being a pushover is to realize that you have value, and that you deserve to be respected. Once you respect yourself, people will respect you in turn. You teach people how to treat you, so be confident in the amazing person you are, and let people know that you won't be pushed around.
Anonymous
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Jan 27, 2016
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It depends on what you consider to be a pushover. Is it something that invokes negative feeling about yourself?
helpfulPeace78
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Jan 28, 2016
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First of all, try not to be so hard on yourself! I find the best way is to step back before making a decision and ask myself whether I am making that decision for myself, or if my decision is coming from an outside influence. Once you are able to differentiate the two, it will be easier to make your own choices and practice practice practice!
Kathlyng90
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Jan 29, 2016
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I think the best thing you can do in order to stop being pushed around by others is to stand tall and feel good about yourself. You need to realize- which you have I believe by asking this question- that you're worth more than being pushed around by others. So, tell the people who are doing it, simply to stop, that you don't like it. Or if they ask you to do something, learn to say "NO" and stick with it.
Mike8448
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Jan 31, 2016
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If you can find someone to practice saying NO to things, and who gives tips on how to say no without offending anyone, that will be good.
Anonymous
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Feb 3, 2016
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Have some confidence in yourself, be firm but civil. Don't let others tell you what you are and what you're not. Love yourself and understand that you deserve respect.
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