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Do I have the right to feel depressed even if I'm privileged?

Profile: MusicalGirlIndia
MusicalGirlIndia on Sep 21, 2017
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Privileged people often are the most depressed as they never seen to be satisfied and content. So yes, do you have the right to feel this way. It is up to you how you change that. Find comfort in the simplicities of your life.
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Anonymous on Sep 21, 2017
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Of course! This is something I struggled with. I felt like I didn't have anything to be depressed about. When you start to think of it as a chemical imbalance and not as a direct result of something in your life, it becomes easier to see how even the richest happiest people in the world could be depressed.
Profile: gracejune
gracejune on Sep 25, 2017
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You have every right to feel depressed even if you're privileged. We are entitled to our emotions, and pain is, and will always be relative. I get the feeling of "My feelings aren't justifiable, people have it off worse than me." But our brains are feeding us this lie that we don't deserve help or that for some reason we're just completely insignificant. It's hard and horrible. The constant war to put others before yourself will always be prevalent, but what I've realized trying to overcome my own mental health problems, is that you need to respect your own needs and the signals your body sends you for help.
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Anonymous on Oct 9, 2017
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It doesn't matter who you are - depression is a mental illness, and just because you might have a bit more than some other people means you are immune to it. It can affect anyone.
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Anonymous on Oct 19, 2017
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Of course you do! It's not like depression cares, far from it, actually. Depression can affect ANYONE. There is no set rule that says you have to have none-of-this, or all-of-that to have depression. Even if you are privileged, your depression is valid, lovelie
Profile: igetcha
igetcha on Nov 5, 2017
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Yes. Believe it or not we're all in this broken world together. Everyone is privileged in some way and disadvantaged in others. Once we have beyond a certain amount of wealth, people tend to assume we don't need help with anything, ever. I mean, if we need something couldn't we just pay for it? From my experience, money can't buy friends, acceptance, or happiness. A lot of the time, we set out to make a better life for ourselves and lose what we had in the process. My mom grew up surrounded by a loving family that was always strapped for cash. She resolved to give me everything she couldn't have but couldn't give me what she did. People rooted for her success but they root for my failure. They attribute my intelligence and resilience to opportunities I had as a kid, which is an insult to my hard work and means I need to not only work 10 times as hard but get 100 times as far to win their respect. I know I have a lot to be grateful for and most of the time I am, but I shouldn't be shamed for the few times I actually do vent about my struggles as a human being. I feel limited in my ability to champion the causes of any marginalized group I belong to because people don't take me seriously as part of that group. Getting to a position of influence often requires spending a lot of time around people who aren't like you, resulting in losing credibility with people who are like you. People assume we're materialistic even if we're not. I spend money on things many people can't like Uber and eating out, not because I feel entitled, but because it gives me more time to put towards my efforts. Then there's the person with the fancy car who I envy but to him it's just a mode of transportation. If only he had a private jet, he wouldn't need to spend so much time stuck in traffic. People can assume but no one really knows if he'd use it to deliver food to the less fortunate or joy ride in circles. Those who don't have what we have can talk about all the selfless things they'd do with half what we have and make us feel guilty about our lives but chances are, they'd make similar choices given the opportunity. There's all this pressure to be better, this idea that we have no excuse not to. Unfortunately money can't buy the ability to function on no sleep or sacrifice your own needs to please others indefinitely until you have their approval. Privilege is temporary, which is something only the privileged seem to notice. We live in a world that expects you to take on massive debt for a college education with no guarantee of ever making it back. It can all be gone in an instant, and when it does, we'd get less sympathy than someone who never had money to begin with. The poor have the empathy of the world while the rich only have the empathy of their family, which might or might not be a healthy environment. We start out with a safe space that meets our basic needs but not our higher needs, and when we venture out we enter a world that's hostile towards us. We don't have time to develop skills at our own pace like those with the option to be invisible until they're ready for the pedestal. We are burdened with upholding the family reputation and miss out on the chance to make mistakes and learn from them. Like everyone else, we've experienced a tiny fraction of the world and long for more and it's a hard road to get there. We face bumps in the road like everyone else and we get depressed. It's not something you need a right to do. It's just something that happens, like breathing. It's whoever's implying you don't have a right to feel depressed who needs to rethink their rights.
Profile: AnEls
AnEls on Nov 12, 2017
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yes of course, because it has nothing to to do with being privileged. Everbody can feel sometimes depressed
Profile: ChangeofPerspective
ChangeofPerspective on Nov 16, 2017
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Yes, of course you do. Privilege is relative...while depression is a mental illness, which makes it a physical illness that can happen to anyone. Depression doesn't care about your rights (which makes you forget that you have them, for some reason...) or respect your perceived privilege.
Profile: latticinio
latticinio on Nov 16, 2017
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Anyone has the right to feel depressed. Depression comes in many shapes and forms and can affect anyone, no matter who they are.
Profile: fictionfreak09
fictionfreak09 on Nov 19, 2017
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Feeling sad and depressed doesn't always pertain to social status. Most of the times, it is about us as an individual devoid our social titles, rankings , profession and status. Sometimes, it's just about our thoughts and the way we perceive the relationships around us.
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