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Why was it always me getting bullied?

Profile: gentleZebra22
gentleZebra22 on Feb 2, 2015
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As hard as it to believe, it was probably not always just you getting bullied. I'm sure that you had a really bad experience of being bullied, but bullies have almost always experienced bullying themselves and they just want to make someone else feel the pain they feel. I'm a teacher, and so often the kids that are being bullied one year reported being bullied previously. Sometimes they think that they'll feel better if they're the ones giving the bad treatment than receiving it. The people they bully are usually their peers that seem different, but what they don't realize is that those differences are what make them special and unique. If you were being bullied it's because your bully saw something in you that made them jealous and instead of dealing with it, they decided to lash out.
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Profile: LapisAngularisVitae
LapisAngularisVitae on Apr 15, 2015
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Personally, I was bulllied for what made me stand out. I was someone who studied, "snitched". since I live by "I will not lie, steal, or cheat, and I will tolerate non among us who do", and was also relatively easy as a target. I did not have muscle or the gall to stand up to my bully because I believed it would be mean.
Profile: RoseIeroWay
RoseIeroWay on May 22, 2015
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Poeple bully those who are kindest and most vulnerable, because they feel bad about themselves so much to the point where they have to shift the pain onto others.
Profile: PeacefulMermaid84
PeacefulMermaid84 on Jun 23, 2015
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A lot of people got bullied, including myself! Be confident in yourself and you'll be able to outdo them.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 4, 2015
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people think that it is only them.. that are only getting bullied, sometimes! but its not their are so many people out their getting bullied just like you.
Profile: Molentra
Molentra on Sep 10, 2015
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It could just be bad luck, or if you're like me it could be because you were socially vulnerable. I was super shy, so I struggled to make friends. Even when I had friends it was normally a very small group. Because of this I was very socially vulnerable and an easy target for bullies.
Profile: bambi74
bambi74 on Dec 14, 2015
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people might think you are different and they don't like that it could also be that they are jealous and so they try and make you feel bad about yourself but don't let them get you down
Profile: PositiveDreamer2016
PositiveDreamer2016 on May 30, 2016
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Bullying is a thing that unfortunately still exists. Don't feel like you are alone. You are not alone. Many people are bullied on a daily basis. Stay strong and talk with a trusted adult, teacher, friend, family member, and we are here for you as well.
Profile: SupremeCourtJustice
SupremeCourtJustice on Jul 25, 2016
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It's not your fault, really. The bullies only pick on those who they think are weaker than them.
Profile: friendlyKoala94
friendlyKoala94 on Aug 2, 2016
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People who bully other people usually go for persons who won't fight back, maybe due to their low self-steem or their calm personality. It's not your fault.
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