Why is everyone around me always being so mean?

Sometimes it means kids are jealous of you. It depends on what they are saying, but that could be bulling.

There are alot of reasons for that some people just like seeing you suffer others may be treated like that and think its the right way to treat people just dont take it too personal you never know what might be happening on their end

It's not your fault. It's probably their fault. Something may have happened to them to cause this behavior.

The attachment pattern that you have is an insecure one.. You can try to reason out why you think so and work on creating a healthy and secure attachment pattern with others :)

Oftentimes people who are "mean" are dealing with their own internalized pain. They may be sad. angry. or stressed over something that is going on in their personal lives. Remember that you are NOT the reason for another person's meanness.

Sometimes we can take what people say as a personal attack and they might not mean anything personal

People are mean for various reasons. There's the classic reason of people feeling bad abou themselves to therefore they try to put others down. Related to that is that for some people that's all they know. They might have abusive or mean parents, they may have been bullied themselves, etc so this either gives them a chance to be the one on top or they just don't know any different. When it comes down to it, whichever way you cut the cake, most people who are mean have no idea how those they are mean to are feeling. They don't for a second put themselves in the shoes of others. If they'd only think a little bit, they'd change their behavior a lot.

Evaluate who you interact with. Perhaps you're surrounded by people who are not great influences in your life, and who do not care about your feelings. See if you should stay clear from these individuals in order to ensure self-happiness.

Often although not always the case, anger is how some people display that they are struggling it's their method of crying for help. I know that it's hard when people are mean to you. But sometimes it helps to try and realise that the person who is being mean to you may be having a tough time as well

They're mean, usually because they are jealous or they feel insecure or they enjoy hurting other people.

Because people don't always understand what you are going through so they lash out. People can be cruel.

It's my firm belief that people aren't inherently bad, or mean. People struggle with what they don't understand - people like to be ignorant. I find it's worth it to try and talk to who ever is being mean, and if they persist, tell someone you trust and avoid them from them on. Some people just can't be helped.

Not everybody will be nice. Sometimes it’s better off to always ignore the negativity. If you know that you are doing right, let the mean people get punished. Hopefully you are doing the right thing and not trying to get back at these people. That will result more difficult times. not everywhere you go people will be nice, but it’s more mature and calm when you show them that their words don’t affect you, if you fail to do this, they will keep on being mean. Or if not, you can always talk to Them about how you feel on them being mean.

Somethings people act mean to others because they are having a difficult time themselves. I once had a bully who would constantly pick on me. I never understood why, but I decided to not let it bother me. One day, my mom sat me down and told me a sad story about my bully. It turns out that he was adopted as a baby and was constantly bullied for being given up by his birth parents. Picking on me was his only way of making himself feel better about the people bullying him. The next day, I went to him and told him I was there for him if he needed to talk. We’ve become friends now, and he feels much better about himself. If someone is being mean to you, they might just be going through some rough times themselves.

Well that’s what we feel and things around act the way we want.. so if u think people are being mean that maybe because u can’t see good people or positive humans around u. Once u tell ur mind that u need good and positive people things around will make that happen and u ll create a world of good people to u😊.. it’s very simple!!! Let’s take an example if u think that this person doesn’t like me try to borrow a pencil or pen from them the person might feel that I don’t like u but it’s just a pencil and anyone wouldn’t mind giving u and soon the person will realise that ur not that bad that’s when u start to make a good environment for urself...!!!😇

They may have something going on personal. It's true that they shouldn't bring it out on you. Or some may be jealous and just take it out on you as if that satisfies them. There could be multiple reasons. Maybe try talking to them and seeing what did you do that was so wrong.

From what I have learned in my life, a lot of times when people are mean to you, it's because of their own personal lives. Most of the time, it has nothing to do with you. A lot of times when someone is mean, it could possibly just be their way of dealing with the issues going on in their lives. So instead of being mean back, try being friendly to them. Being mean to someone is never the answer, even if they are being mean to you.

Well people are just really mean sometimes 🙄 It's tough but there's always people who are about you

People be mean cause there is tons of reason. First it's not your fault if they are mean to you. People sometimes usually vent at other or they might have things in there life why they are acting this.

Maybe because they are jealous of you. Don't take them seiously as they don't mean most of the things they say