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Why does bullying hurt for so long?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 10, 2015
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Because you start believing that you are what bullies say, because they repeat that over and over again. You need to get that out of your head, you are what you want to be, and no one else has the right to tell you what to do or what to be.
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Anonymous on Apr 11, 2016
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No matter how many times we tell ourselves to not care about our bullies, we always end up paying alittle attention to what they're saying. If it happened since you were young it hurts to know that there are people cruel like that. Everything they say can stick with you until you grow up. It can also hurt if it came from someone close or someone you haven't done anything to. It's best to just let the thoughts of your bullies flow accept that you've been bullied.
Profile: brokenmarsh
brokenmarsh on Mar 26, 2015
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Bullying personally hurts me because bullied point out your flaws, the ones you try your hardest to hide. They pick at all your flaws and make you feel completely worthless. That pain lasts for a while because all the words they said stay in your head in exact detail.
Profile: imemma03
imemma03 on Feb 20, 2018
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because they really try to hurt you, it might not be what they say that hurts you the most, but maybe that they do bully you because they are jealous or they judge you before getting to know you
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librabrandi89 on May 20, 2015
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Because it leaves emotional, mental, and physical scars. But luckily these can be healed by you and only you
Profile: DipityEnigma
DipityEnigma on Jun 6, 2015
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It depends on the length of bullying sometimes. If you've been bullied for a few years, you end up feeling like you deserve it but then when you realise you didn't deserve it, you feel hatred, anger and upset that you went through all that for nothing but there's nothing you can do about it now. "Shoulda, coulda, woulda" as the saying goes. Bullying hurts because you feel like you're a target; like it's meant to happen and after so long, you simply accept it and bullying becomes just another part of life. Bullying shouldn't happen but it does and if this is a personal experience that you're referring to, I'm sorry that you've had to go through such a terrible ordeal and I wish you the best of luck.
Profile: sweetSunshine28
sweetSunshine28 on Dec 8, 2015
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I feel its cause bullies target our weakness, that's what makes them feel so powerful. And if they are able to pick at something that hurts us we feel the pain long after. Even though we know what they say or do isnt true We are reminded that someone hurt us for a while after it happens.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 5, 2015
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Bullying can affect people in a lot of ways. Some people may feel the effects of this for a long time afterwards. It is possible that you aren't completely over what happened or that you may need some form of closure.
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Anonymous on May 6, 2015
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Because people knock you down so you feel worthless about youself. like one time i was called freackle face and that really put me down
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Anonymous on Apr 9, 2015
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Bullying can hurt for so long because sometimes it goes unnoticed, or unresolved. A lot of people don't speak up when they are being bullied and they let it happen, which can, in the long run cause hurt and sometimes anxiety associated with the bullying
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