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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 10, 2014
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Bullies act to assert some dominance over others because it makes them feel better about themselves and their choices. They bully you to improve their self-esteem by suggesting they are better than you. Of course, someone who is bullying you is not better than you. They are probably insecure, and it's unfortunate they haven't discovered another way to comfort themselves.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 29, 2015
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Bullyng has a lot of reasons. But the most common one isn't about you, but about them. They need to feel important, to feel like they are in control and are better than everyone else, so they choose to treat a person like nothing. Bullies are the weak, and the bullied are the strong ones.
Profile: AngeloF102
AngeloF102 on Dec 12, 2014
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Bullying is often an expression of the bully's self confidence, or lack there of. Bullying is often used as a mechanism of escape from the difficulties of one's life by creating difficulties in another person's life that the bully controls, due to the fact that the bully's own difficulties are seemingly uncontrollable.
Profile: MissAva
MissAva on Feb 23, 2016
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I Think people bully because they have nothing else to do with their life, so they get amusement by bullying.
Profile: dancingSong63
dancingSong63 on Dec 19, 2014
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Its never about you! It is always about the bully... Bullys bully people who are better than them, people who have something they dont have... And always remember people who talk behind your back are where they belong... Behinde you
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 29, 2014
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It has nothing to do with you. They are insecure about themselves and are using you as an outlet for this.
Profile: AndreeaHolmes
AndreeaHolmes on May 15, 2015
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Bullies are trouble-minded people that are experiencing issues in their personal lives and that do not know how to properly solve them. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you and being bullied is something you should not take onto yourself.
Profile: lauradove
lauradove on Jun 23, 2015
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They do not bully you for your faults. They bully you because its an outlet for themselves. It gets better.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 10, 2014
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They bully you because they are jealous of you. They want to have your life and they are upset that they don't.
Profile: TeenageDreamer
TeenageDreamer on Aug 31, 2015
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Some of the reasons why bullying takes place include institutional and cultural causes as well as social and family issues. The personal history of someone who bullies others is also a reason why they do so. It is not uncommon for kids to bully other kids in order to feel like they have some power in this world.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 15, 2016
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Because they are selfish, they have nothing better to do and target people unfairly and cruely. Don't let them dominate you!
Profile: Sensitivepeach2008
Sensitivepeach2008 on Nov 14, 2017
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People bully sometimes because of doubt, sadness, and even depression. The harm caused makes them laugh, and even point at you.
Profile: Selflesssupport
Selflesssupport on Dec 10, 2014
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Because they are weak and they see you as an easy target. They use you to make themselves feel better and its wrong but they don't realize it and the worst part is, is that they won't they are a bully until they finally stop being one. So they spend their days harassing others to lift up their own spirits. Which truly they probably have many insecurities and this is what they do to cope with them. No matter how wrong it is they believe it is ok and nothing is wrong with a little teasing. And anyone tears shed by the bullied is, in their mind, just plain over dramatic. So this gives them more and more leverage over someone and no one sees a way to end it because they have built up this wall of defense. And this wall of defense just keeps on shooting down anyone in sight. Breaking them down into pieces and destroying who they are. So when they bully you, its not because of anything you are doing wrong. Its actually the complete opposite. They see you as more than them and they can not handle this. So they must shoot you down before you shoot them down.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 11, 2014
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I think every bully has a different motive. Some bullies may be jealous or upset with themselves. Others may be going through a difficult time and want attention or just don't know how to deal with their situation or emotions.
Profile: AdamZeeper
AdamZeeper on Feb 1, 2016
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Bullying is normally caused from the bully having problems of they're own, causing them to take it out on others.
Profile: sleepingKitten101
sleepingKitten101 on Jan 3, 2015
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Because they have nothing better to do with their time. Or they have problems in their own life and they want to take it out on the first person they see.
Profile: loopylou
loopylou on May 17, 2015
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some people bully because they cant handle their own emotions and could possibly be having problems in their own life so choose to lash out on other people without thinking what cimpact it has on others lifes either that or they are jealous of you... stand up ignore them and try carry on in your life i know it is hard but once they think it isnt affecting you and your not bothered they will stop xxx
Profile: brightForest13
brightForest13 on Jun 5, 2015
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Some people bully because they have things or problems they are going through that then they bring it out on you! There is nothing wrong with you! You are AMAZING!!:)
Profile: ImListeningBabe
ImListeningBabe on Jan 18, 2016
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Because they feel bad about themselves and they think hurting you will make them feel better about themselves
Profile: passionatepanda
passionatepanda on Feb 8, 2016
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People bully for several reasons, the main reasons being that they themselves have low self esteem, or are dealing with problems at home. They take their frustrations out on others. :)
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