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Why do the people bully me when I always helped them?

Profile: PackwithMe19
PackwithMe19 on Jun 6, 2015
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The psychology behind bullying is more elaborate than this but my experience tells me that it as nothing to do with you... it´s not your fault in any way and the fact that you helped someone shows your genuine intentions... the sentence "the problem it´s not you it´s me" applies and seems quite adequate to the bullying situation, where the recovery of control seems to be the main incentive to the bully... maybe you remind them someone that they would never be...
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 7, 2015
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Some people don't realize the kindness of your actions, and end up taking advantage of you. They don't appreciate what you do, and that's a very negative way to treat a person. People who bully you when you've helped them in the past really don't deserve a great person like you!
Profile: Remina
Remina on Jul 12, 2016
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I don't know. There's never a real reason why someone bullies anyone. Bullies are unhappy people, seeking attention and lashing out.
Profile: quietLake6290
quietLake6290 on Aug 1, 2016
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Sometimes people can't see or appriciate the good things you have done for them to help them. It's vey sad people can't be thankful.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 1, 2016
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The simple but truthful answer is because 1. Their jealous of you, Your clearly a very kind hearted giving person and they hate you for it... 2. Because they hate themselves && 3rd... Because they have taken you for granted meaning that because your such a good person, They don't think they will lose you resulting in them doing whatever they want and saying whatever they want because they think you'll stay around either way.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 20, 2016
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Many people are unhappy with themselves, and don't feel they deserve the help. They will have built up a big wall around their mind. Part of them wants help, no one wants to feel unhappy, but then their overwhelming feeling of inferiority gets the better of them and lashes out at the person that helped them.
Profile: starryDreamer93
starryDreamer93 on Oct 4, 2016
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Because they are taking you for a mug they think they can speak to you how they like and if you give in and still help them they will just laugh at you.
Profile: proudSummer37
proudSummer37 on Jan 3, 2017
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People bully you when you try to help them beacuse people do not always want help even if they need it so instead of being grateful, a person can feel embarssed and lash out instead of showing gratitude
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 19, 2018
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People can bully you even when you helped them because they have fully trusted you in reaching out to you so when a bad event happens and they need to have someone to take it upon it'll be you the first person they aim it at.
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