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Why do some people want other people to feel really bad?

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Anonymous on Jun 17, 2015
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Some insecure people want other people to feel really bad, to feel better about themselves. Then they compare their situation/ feelings to the other people feeling worse, and that gives them a feeling of self-confidence. It's quite selfish behaviour.
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Hereforyou01 on Dec 15, 2015
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It's tough to say why some people want other people to feel bad. Sometimes they themselves feel bad and they want the others around them to feel the same way they do. Sometimes it's more complicated than that. What's important to remember is, just because some people want you or someone else to feel bad , doesn't mean you have to let it affect you. Be true you yourself and love who you are. Regardless of what someone else wants you to feel.
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caringheart100 on May 3, 2015
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Some people have very bad hurts and depression, and they will envy those who are happy, and do not know how to deal with it. So they try to make everyone else feel bad too.
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Anonymous on Jan 16, 2015
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People often want others to feel bad because they feel bad themselves. They're jealous of the happiness of others and will do what they can to make sure those people aren't happier then they are feeling themselves. Those people just need someone to love, but they push away people trying to get close because they're afraid to look weak and lose the little respect they have.
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Anonymous on Nov 27, 2017
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Some people want others to 'experience' how they feel by making them feel bad, to feel understood...
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Anonymous on May 17, 2016
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Sometimes these people are people who have problems on their owns and instead of talking about it, they hurt other people so they feel less frustrated.
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Anonymous on Dec 28, 2015
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Because those people who want others to feel sad do not feel good about themselves and they want to hurt people to make themselves feel better
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Anonymous on Jun 17, 2015
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Because, they feel bad so they make others feel bad to make themselves feel better because they feel like they are in control and can make others feel like they do
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Anonymous on Dec 7, 2015
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It's not that they want you to feel bad it's that they probably don't know any better. Just remember to change your train of thought and you will see it all in a new prospective
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Anonymous on Nov 13, 2018
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Some people want other people to fell bad because they fell bad themself. They think that in ordner to fly higher they need to tie others to the ground, but in reality they just need to spread their wings. What i mean by this is that they need to talk to others about their problems instead of coursing other peable problems. So they do not accualy want others to feel bad. They just do not understand how to maske themself feel good and do not want to be the only once who are feelinh bad about themself. I think that is why 'they want other people to feel rally bad.'
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