Why do people hate me for no reason?
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Moderated by Joe Nelson, Licensed Clinical Social Worker Doctor of Social Work
Updated: Jul 13, 2021
quiescentvibes
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Aug 9, 2015
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No one hates you, hate is a very strong word! Always remember not everyone is understood. With that being said you are diffrent, original. Sometimes people can't handle it! Be proud
MeanBuster
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Mar 24, 2016
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Usually there is a reason. It can be appearance, how you say things, how others have been talking about you, violating social norms, or being expressively different.
Anonymous
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May 9, 2016
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because you are better than tem in every possible way and they cant be who you are
ruedabega13
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Apr 10, 2018
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It is always hard to feel like people hate you, but that feeling can be increased if you are depressed or anxious. Try to step back and be objective about the situation; do these people actually hate you, or is it just in your head?
Anonymous
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Jun 19, 2015
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Most of the time, how you perceive people feeling about you does not reflect on how things actually are. We are usually much more critical of ourselves than others. Remember, everyone has their own lives - usually hating other people, especially for no reason, is not something people have time for!
You have a perception of how people view yourself. However, you cannot control how others feel about you. The only thing you can control is how you feel. Do not let other peoples' opinions on yourself change the way you view yourself.
Georgiebronte
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Aug 2, 2015
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They could be jealous of who I am as a person! They might of even heard untrue gossip that turned the against me
JoyfulForestRain
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Mar 25, 2016
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There is actually a lot of reasons people hate other people for no reason. Jealousy is a big factor. For example, somebody may be awful to you, but its only because they saw that your mom drove you to school and their mom passed away when they were young. It's still not okay to hate people for no reason, but for some people it's how they deal with their emotions. They just need to redirect their hardships and emotions on something more positive then taking it out on you. For some people it is because they don't know something or don't understand it so they judge it for being different. There are a lot of reasons, but its important that you know that it's not your fault. Their just working through their own feelings and opinions in, sadly, a negative way.
Anonymous
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Aug 14, 2015
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People in general fear what they dont understand. Therefore their misunderstanding can seem like hatred when it's really more like a reaction to fear.
butterflykisses27
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Jul 11, 2015
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Some people hate other people because they are so unhappy in themselves they like to take it out on other people who they perceive to be vulnerable or whom they think might not fight back. Its not you. Its actually a reflection of the hater.
JaketheTransguyFTM
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Jun 9, 2016
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I'm sure that they don't hate you for no reason. Some people are jeaulous or are misunderstanding of the situation.
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