Why do people hate me for no reason?
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Moderated by Joe Nelson, Licensed Clinical Social Worker Doctor of Social Work
Updated: Jul 13, 2021
PeachyCream
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Mar 12, 2016
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It might not be that people hate you, you're just a common outlet for misdirected anger. Sometimes a group of people will consider someone an easy target for hatred and will use you to release their negativity without even considering your feelings.
HelperKaitlin
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Mar 31, 2016
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The people that hate you for no reason for matter, I've had loads of people not liking me! Smile at them, make them see you're not bothered
Anonymous
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Aug 7, 2015
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people don't hate you, it's themselves they have a problem with, and so they take it out on you. There is nothing wrong with you.
temporarycarla
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Mar 20, 2016
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Because you aren't like them. If someone hates you and you haven't done anything wrong, it will be because people think you have to be exactly like them because they're "are cool" and you're not, but hey! guess what? It's your life so live it however you want ;)
sendinggoodvibestoyou
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Mar 19, 2016
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People often hate others because of their own insecurities, they might envy you and who you are. That person wants to be like you but cannot, so they resort to hating on you. They could be going through a tough time in their live and have to need to take out their anger on someone.
Anonymous
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Jun 20, 2015
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There are three possible answers to this:
1) They don't hate you, they're just shy or thinking about their own problems.
2) They hate you because you remind them of something they don't like about themselves, or something they're afraid they might become if they don't try hard and stay vigilant.
3) It's not for no reason--you're doing something really obnoxious or treating them badly.
Anonymous
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Jul 11, 2015
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People need to exploit flaws of others to make them feel better about themselves. They will be mean whenever they can.
Anonymous
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Mar 17, 2016
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if people hates.. thats their problem.. because they have enough time to waste thinking and dis-appreciating you... you should concentrate in cherishing yourself.. stop bothering people's review
Anonymous
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Mar 13, 2016
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I think there's always a reason, it's just that the reason can sometimes be silly. Remember to be yourself no matter what though, and stick to your principles. Sometimes it can be hard to be yourself when people don't understand you/your personality, but continue on being yourself, even if no one understands.
Anonymous
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Apr 26, 2017
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People bully people beacuse they see something that they like and want and don't have and try to take it from you. Jealousy is the worst type of bullying. But please stand up for yourself and for others and tell a teacher it hurts to be bullied I would know I am still bullied today and no one stands up for me and trust me it hurts.
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