Why do people hate me for no reason?
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Updated: Jul 13, 2021
saltywhale
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Dec 31, 2015
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I believe that they hate you because you're mean but you don't know it or they hate you because they're mean.
Anonymous
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Dec 31, 2015
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Not everyone hates you. Your family doesn't hate you, our your friends. You may just be thinking this because you aren't what you want to be.
Anonymous
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Dec 31, 2015
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Do you think you did something wrong to think they hate you? Why do you think they hate you? How can you make it right so they won't hate you no more?
squeek
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Jan 2, 2016
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People hardly ever hate someone for no reason. they're just ashamed to admit the reason why they hate you
AbnormalAlex
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Jan 3, 2016
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This may be brutally honest, but there might be a reason that you're not even aware of. I believe everyone gives off a certain energy, which can be negative or positive. If you find yourself consistently thinking negative thoughts about people's supposed hatred toward you, learn how to make them more positive, and you will come off as more welcoming and friendly.
AmazingAmz8
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Jan 6, 2016
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It may feel that way but not everyone hates you for no reason. depression can make people feel like they live in their own little bubble and everyone around them is trying to pop it all of the time it isn't always like that.
SenpaiXD
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Jan 7, 2016
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First of all, do people really hate you for no apparent reason. Think about it, why would someone hate somebody for absolutely no reason. It is a negative and condescending thinking towards yourself. You are making an assumption on other people's thinking which may be true or not true about yourself.
Secondly, if people do hate you? Its "What" do they hate about you, not why. I don't like you because you have bad hygiene. Okay I will fix and shower more and be a clean person from now on. I don't like you because you are too blunt and hurt my feelings. Okay I will hold back on the things I say and give constructive criticism at the appropriate things.
In general, there is no why but what people hate about you. Even then you might be overthinking because people are selfish creatures. Most of the time, they will be too busy acknowledging themselves rather than you. Stay positive and improve yourself, you'll honestly feel better about yourself and give yourself a new perspective.
caringrose23
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Jan 7, 2016
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Do they really have no reason? Think about it, we all blow up sometimes, maybe it just happened to be them that one time. Maybe they've heard rumors. Stand up for for yourself, it will give you more confidence and make you feel good.
Anonymous
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Jan 9, 2016
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They probably don't hate you. Maybe they are jealous or you just aren't friends with them but most of the time, they don't hate you
Anonymous
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Jan 9, 2016
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May be because they judge you by your looks or any other external stuffs. People often makes silly mistakes, but if you are a nice person, it won't take much time to win them over.
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