Why do people hate me for no reason?
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Moderated by Joe Nelson, Licensed Clinical Social Worker Doctor of Social Work
Updated: Jul 13, 2021
zaix
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Jul 11, 2015
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they might not hate you maybe you just think they hate you and you might not be friendly enough with others for them to be friendly to you
Softblanket1029
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Jul 22, 2015
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it is really hard to tell if people actually hate you or not. it is how you think they perceive you. they may actually just like you for who you are but give you your space.
iamherealwaysforu
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Jul 23, 2015
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The way we deal with ourselves, others do the same. If we can love ourselves without any condition then others will also love us without any condition but making everyone happy is a faulty thinking. Again, none can control anyone so it is impossible to make someone love you forcefully. It is not always important to a happy life that everyone should love you. The man with no friends can also become the happiest person in this world. If we can separate this two things happiness and hatred which are not in a relation can fix a lot of social problems in our life.
Angelline
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Jul 25, 2015
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May be this is just one way of looking at it, may be they don't. It's just something you have in your mind. How about not thinking about people and start loving yourself with all your heart without thinking about that people hate you. No one can hate you more that you think they can. Acceptance on loving yourself more matters the most instead.
Anonymous
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Jul 26, 2015
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People don't hate you for no reason. They may not even hate you at all.
if they do, ask and evaluate
Anonymous
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Jul 26, 2015
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It dispense on the situation, sometimes it looks like a person hates you, but it could be that he had something on his mind. Every character is unique and we don't have the same things we like and do, so that could be the reason that it look likes someone hate you.
Anonymous
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Jul 31, 2015
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no one will hate anyone for no reason, it sounds like you have some social anxiety and become self conscious of what people are thinking. I bet your a great person and everyone in fact thinks you are too, if you was a bad person and people hated you then you wouldn't be asking this question..
tranquilForever87
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Aug 1, 2015
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You feel that people hate you for no reason. Has something happened recently to make you feel this way?
Lovetheearthandyourself
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Aug 6, 2015
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That's an example of negative thinking. It's a jump to conclusion. They probably don't hate you. Think positive!
Anonymous
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Aug 8, 2015
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Usually people just don't hate someone for no reason. Maybe they misunderstand you or you offend people without meaning to. Look for social cues and body language for your answer. If the issue persists it might be okay to go and ask someone "Hey, why do you hate me?" They will likely tell you the reason if they hate you.
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