Why do people hate me for no reason?
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Updated: Jul 13, 2021
fixyou
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Dec 2, 2014
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I have also asked the same question to myself over yeats and the answer to this is that they dont really hate you. They hate themselves really. And they are scared of this self hatred and project it towards you. But look at the big picture and you will find that those people will hardly matter in your life in long run
HumIlityTurnsMenToAngels
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Aug 12, 2015
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Because they dont know who you really are, and people have always had the problem of hating what they dont know
Aurelius735
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Aug 16, 2015
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Because they need attention. What haters are most afraid of is silence. They feel their existence when they know that you heard their voice. So don’t talk back or argue with them. They would only get more excited. Don’t try to reason with them. Don’t. Even. They won’t bother listening. They just need your response to know that someone actually cares about what they think or what they have to say.
Selfbeliever
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Jan 3, 2015
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Don't talk about yourself very much at all when you talk to people. Make believe that you are talking to the most interesting person in the world (every time), hang on to what they say and ask questions about what they tell you. The secret to getting people to like you is to take interest in them. Ask them about their day, particularly what they've been doing the last few hours, their work, their interests. You don't get people to like you by talking about yourself. But this is a skill you must work on and it's a process.
ItsPreeti
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Jun 27, 2015
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People would hate you for reason because you have a magic wand and they are jealous of that magic wand.
its10az
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Jul 29, 2015
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They are probably jealous of you and dying to be like you, so they feel like they can hate on you instead.
DianaLouise
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Jun 19, 2015
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There could be a lot of reasons, I think I've experienced most of them.
People could dislike you because they're jealous or insecure. Maybe deep down they think you're better than them, more attractive, happier, or have something they want.
Another reason could be because there's a misunderstanding. Maybe one day you were staring into space and they thought you were giving them a nasty look.
Maybe there is an issue because of a misunderstanding or a rumor.
No matter the reason, understand that it is not your fault.
BenThereB4
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Jul 15, 2015
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Some people hate others in order to make themselves feel above you. When a person is below you it can give some people a sense of power. You are who you choose to be and if you are being hated on, there is always a reason, a stupid reason that they wont admit but a reason nonetheless. Your most powerful weapon is to not be bothered by it. Embrace it and live your life the way you want.
ButterflyAri
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Jul 3, 2015
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Theyre just weird, you already know its for no reason. So just do your best to surround yourself with people who like you and ignore those who hate you for no reason, Lots of love to whoever feels this way (I used to feel like this a lot too)
divinemind
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Jul 25, 2015
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Many people don't hate others it could be from jealousy.Many people feel jealous if you have something they don't have. Instead of being positive and happy for you they decide they want to beat you down and make you suffer just like they have to.
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