Why do people hate me for no reason?
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Moderated by Joe Nelson, Licensed Clinical Social Worker Doctor of Social Work
Updated: Jul 13, 2021
smeegles2015
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Dec 19, 2015
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people don't hate anyone they just feel a strong dislike for that person but it doesn't matter what they think as long as you love yourself
Pr0blemFree423
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Jan 6, 2016
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A person may think they are being hated when in reality, they are misjudging others' feelings. You need to put yourself in the other person's shoes and see what other feelings might they have for you but do not know how to show them.
Anonymous
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May 2, 2015
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Unless 'people' have said that they hate you, i doubt that it really is the case but even if it is the case, there may be other reasons for why they are saying that which have nothing to do with you so be patient and wait for the right time to approach this topic with the people/person who has said this to you.
WonderlandRabbit
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Jun 19, 2015
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There are a variety reason why people may dislike you and the majority of them may not be your fault in general. They may just be jealous or they may have a negative image of you, but the thing is who cares what people think you cant change their opinion so continue doing you.
Anonymous
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Jun 21, 2015
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they don't hate you. you might think that they do but they most likely don't. sometimes you just have to go up to them and talk to them
Anonymous
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Jun 24, 2015
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People who do that aren't necessary in your life. Maybe they don't want anything to do with anyone, or maybe they are jealous. We will never know.
MeggieLove4all
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Jul 16, 2015
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People don't really hate you, they are just going through their own problems that make them seem annoyed with you, or they hold some sort of disliking for you or jealousy.
Anonymous
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Jul 17, 2015
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I have experienced this same problem when I was younger and wasn't sure why I didn't have many friends, from my own personal experience I've found these feelings of others hatred are often untrue, feelings of anxiety and depression can often lead to feeling like the world is against you, just remember for every person that dislikes you there are several more that love you
Anonymous
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Jul 18, 2015
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Many people, especially teenagers, can be very judgemental without knowing the person they're judging. It may not be that people hate you, but that they're trying to find where they fit in so they're rude to you.
Anonymous
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Jul 31, 2015
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There is a reason for every action. The hate could stem from something this person wishes they had (perhaps a certain trait, may it be hair colour, or scent, or quirkiness) that you happen to have. Usually it's envy that is conveyed negatively, such that it looks like a personal hatred towards you. If I were you, I'd take it as a compliment; you have something that somebody wants!
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