Why do people hate me for no reason?
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Moderated by Joe Nelson, Licensed Clinical Social Worker Doctor of Social Work
Updated: Jul 13, 2021
Anonymous
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Dec 27, 2015
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Sometimes people can be hateful for no reason. Although it might not make sense, some people aren't as nice as the kinder people imagine them to be. Unfortunately, not everyone possesses a pure heart.
Some people may be jealous of you in various aspects. Your achievements, personality, skills, the attention you get…absolutely anything! They respond by being hateful. Unfortunately, it isn't easy to bring another person into a kinder world…you might hurt yourself in the process. Therefore letting it go and accepting that you can't please everyone will be a good choice.
Anonymous
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Dec 30, 2015
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People generely hate you if they can't keep up with you.thameans your better then thm and they are jalous of you that's allt
King0fclubs
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Jan 8, 2016
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Endless reasons why, but, its best not to put so much weight into what other people say or think of you because in the end what you think of you is the only thing that matters.
Anonymous
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Jan 17, 2016
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they hate me because they don't understand my depression or my anxiety. that it consumes me. that I don't have any control over it.
Anonymous
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Jan 25, 2016
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i strongly believe that there are many problems inside the haters and they want show these thing on you
gentleParadise14
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Jun 18, 2015
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When people's self-esteem is threatened, they are more likely to compare themselves to people they think are worse off than them. They tend to see other people as having more negative traits. They degrade people who aren't members of their groups, and they become more directly aggressive towards people in general.
Anonymous
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Jun 18, 2015
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Because they envy all the beautiful qualities you have. They don't want you to be exposes to them because they know it will make you something"more" something they can't have or can't be.
cherishedJet13
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Jul 9, 2015
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They don't. People might hate you because they are jealous and that is way they show jealousy. It's interesting though, most bullies, bully because they are jealous of there victim.
Staceyjane
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Aug 13, 2015
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Some people are a bad juge of cartictor and like to assume things without knowing people some people also like the attention so when they haven't got that they seem to dislike the person that does have it
kittykat
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Aug 13, 2015
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Sometimes people are afraid of what they don't understand, or they're hateful because of assumptions they've made and ingrained prejudices they have. It's best to avoid these people or, if you can't avoid them (because of a school or work or home environment) then to find positive people to surround yourself with as well. 7 Cups has some great support groups and people to reach out to. It's also worth noting that social anxiety can cause fear and perceptions of people hating you even though they may not - be careful not to try to read people's minds. And if you're school age and being bullied, contact your school administration or your parents to deal with the problem.
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