Why do people hate me for no reason?
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Moderated by Joe Nelson, Licensed Clinical Social Worker Doctor of Social Work
Updated: Jul 13, 2021
Anonymous
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Jan 24, 2016
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People don't hate you for no reason. Often people are jealous of you and actually want what you have. This often provokes them to say mean things or be spiteful.
chanelsdaisy
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Jun 25, 2015
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people are getting hated so much, that they want others to feel bad too. Trust me, only the people who earn little love, give little love
Anonymous
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Dec 19, 2015
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I have been in your shoes, I understand how bad it feels to be hated for no reason. The only reason would be the difference in each and everyone of us, but then you need to understand also, that you cannot please everyone. Therefore, just be yourself. :)
Anonymous
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Dec 25, 2015
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Sometimes people hate other because they are being hated on them self and can't help the pain so they want others to feel the same because they don't understand why they are victims
pelizzijojo13
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Jan 13, 2016
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Sometimes your personality, or person reminds them of a past they they miss terribly. They could also feel worthless because Cowards run away from big goals then seek cheap victories to feel good about themselves. and Brave people (like you) set goals and achieve them. Also sometimes a person might dislike you because he/she thinks that you are a threat. Cowards and weak people automatically dislike anybody who might threaten their position ( Steal their friends, get a share of the attention they are getting, get the job they are applying for ...etc)
MathewTheBull
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Jul 10, 2015
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Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you bad. Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too.
Divenire
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Jul 11, 2015
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I think the real question should be 'why do I care about those who don't know me and still judge me? why do I care if they don't mean much to me?' Because, after all, in this life you will be loved but you will be hated as well. Wanting to be loved by everyone is, in the long run, tiring and senseless.
IncredibleCupcake
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Jul 23, 2015
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From personal experience, people usually act unkindly to others when it surrounds jealousy or envy. People show hatred to those they wish they could become. If a person is liked by many people, some will act as though they hate them because they wish they had that life. If a person is isolated and feels like everyone hates them due to acts such as bullying it's usually due to the fact that they are getting a reaction from you- don't rise to the bait and let them win.
Brittneym101
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Aug 5, 2015
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Hate is a very strong word. You can't really hate someone for no reason. I believe that people that say or act like they hate you is because they are jealous and there is something that they hate within themselves. So, just continue being yourself because everyone else is taken. The biggest revenge that you can get on a person who hates you is to love them.
Anonymous
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Jan 5, 2016
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Nobody is for everybody, be happy with yourself regardless of others and then you won't care who hates you or who does not.
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