Why do people hate me for no reason?
330 Answers
Moderated by Joe Nelson, Licensed Clinical Social Worker Doctor of Social Work
Updated: Jul 13, 2021
niceDreamer34
on
Jan 8, 2016
...read more
The reason most people "hate you" is because they're jealous of something you have. You may not think so but that is almost always the reason, no one hates someone for no reason.
igetcha
on
Jan 9, 2016
...read more
It's about them not you. Often people hate someone who responds better to a situation than they expect, leaving them with no scapegoat and forcing them to take responsibility for their actions
Caed
on
Mar 19, 2016
...read more
It's the case that many of us paint the world - and the people in it - with whatever thoughts and feelings we are experiencing in the moment. Whatever we truly feel and think about ourselves, we project that outwards and frequently have a hard time looking past the filter we've unconsciously created.
It's very important, then, to constantly ask ourselves why we believe what we do, about ourselves and others. Where do these ideas come from? What do they mean about where we are in our lives? What are their roots? By doing this, we can better introspect and discover the sources of our thoughts and feelings - and doing this gives us the power to make positive change.
Anonymous
on
Mar 26, 2016
...read more
No one can hate anyone for no reason. Most likely you think they hate you but I am sure they don't. Sometimes we will think negatively of ourselves which will affect how we believe others to see us,
Anonymous
on
Apr 2, 2016
...read more
Because they want to feel more secure about their own feelings and they might be afraid to face their own feelings.
Anonymous
on
Jun 24, 2015
...read more
You're an amazing human being and don't let mean people make you feel hated. People out there care:)
TransMan1115
on
Jun 26, 2015
...read more
I don't hate you, if you are actually nice and not being mean to anyone, then I don't get why anyone would be mean, they are probably just jealous of your fabulousness
peacefulcrescents0103
on
Jul 2, 2015
...read more
Some people hate because that's all they know, try not to pay them any mind. You're amazing! Everyone doesn't hate you either. I love you!!! :)
peachysunny
on
Jul 5, 2015
...read more
because they are idots and you should take no notice of them because you are amazing worth so much more than idiots opinions of you
Anonymous
on
Aug 5, 2015
...read more
There is many reasons why someone can hate you, it can be that you have something they don't, that they think you don't deserve it, that they don't want to lose to you, because they have nothing else to do, because they need attention....
Talk to an expert therapist
After a stint at corporate finance, my lived experiences and interest in...
Talk to Serene Sarah NowWhat's the best way to get over someone calling you nasty names?
314 Answers
My friend is always negative towards me. What do I do?
275 Answers
What's the difference between bullying and teasing?
272 Answers
How do you get over the feeling that people are laughing at you?
240 Answers
How to deal with people that are bad mouthing me?
230 Answers
Why would someone who is already in pain wish to inflict it upon others?
221 Answers