Why do people hate me for no reason?
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Moderated by Joe Nelson, Licensed Clinical Social Worker Doctor of Social Work
Updated: Jul 13, 2021
trisjlistens
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Aug 1, 2015
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There might be reasons that you do not know. You might be being annoying, unconsciously. Everything has a reason.
Anonymous
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Aug 5, 2015
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I'm so sorry you feel like people hate you. I don't hate you. I think you are deserving of love and healthy relationships. If you ever feel like someone is negative around you, remember that I don't hate you! We are here for you at 7 cups of tea if you ever feel like you need to talk.
emotional3cstacy
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Aug 14, 2015
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Hate is a strong word, people can't just hate you for no reason, it is probably just you putting these thoughts in your head because you might just feel self conscious. However, people can hate others for many reasons, jealousy is the usual cause of most hate from individuals and or groups in most cases. Others just crave the attention from others, and because they are unhappy with something in there own life and putting others down somehow makes them feel better which is never okay.
NyxCain
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Aug 15, 2015
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They likely have a problem with themselves rather than you. There is this term in psychology called "projecting" and it is where people take problems they are facing and how they feel about themselves, and then treat others how they feel about themselves. I'm sure that they do this to many people, and that you are a wonderful person.
cristiana33
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Dec 16, 2015
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People don't hate you. They just behave like they do when they have trouble understanding you or when they think of themselves to be better than you. They aren't. You cannot be better than someone and treat them badly. We are all amazing the way we are. Try to find those humans who are willing to give you positive energy and good time.
Anonymous
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Dec 22, 2015
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People don't hate you. Everyone is deserving of respect. Many people dislike people because they misunderstand them. By opening up and talking with these people, we are able to share experiences and prevent hate!
CatTheByrd
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Dec 31, 2015
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Maybe they are jealous of you, from personal experience, that is most likely the reason they hate you.
Anonymous
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Jan 7, 2016
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They may just be jealous of envious of you. Or.. They may not hate you at all, it may just be the way you see it. They might just dislike you just to be mean. Others just want a reaction, or attention to them.
GrowthMindset17
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Jan 10, 2016
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Don't worry about them. They hate you because they can't be like you. They envy the fact that you have what they don't so keep doing better than them !
tattoo99
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Feb 10, 2016
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Hate is a feeling wich every person has and you can not turn it up. You have to ignore the people because they do not earn your attention.
Anonymous
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Jun 20, 2015
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I hear that you are experiencing the feeling of hate from others around you and you can't think of a reason for it, that you aren't to blame for their hatred towards you?
Anonymous
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Jun 24, 2015
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In life, everyone is unique, everyone is different and wants different things. Not everyone can like a person just for being themselves, regardless of their behaviour. People do not want to same things, that is what makes every human being a unique indvidual.
Anonymous
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Jul 2, 2015
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Hate is a pretty strong word. It might seem like people 'hate' you for no reason. But it's really all in their minds. Often it's not you, it's them. They could be jealous of you; they feel that you are a threat to them in some way. It's really their problem, not yours. Always remember to stand up for yourself.
Anonymous
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Jul 2, 2015
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I doubt anybody hates you without a reason, or maybe you are anxious and believe they hate you, but you haven't even talked to them, If they do hate you, it may just be because they do not associate with wonderful amazing people like you are maybe they are just jealous. Trust me, you are not the problem, they are
Anonymous
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Jul 10, 2015
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Sunshine99x
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Jul 10, 2015
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some people hate others for no apparent reason there's nothing much we can do about it , its just nature.
Stormearth
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Jul 12, 2015
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People can hate because of many things. One of the biggest is jealousy. Don't let anyone bring you down.
Anonymous
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Jul 18, 2015
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They probably don't hate you and even if they do just try talking to them. Get to know each other. Tell them how you feel. Just try and fix things.
sunbeams
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Jul 18, 2015
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I don't think someone would hate you for no reason at all. There will always be a reason why people do what they do and you have to be open-minded about it. Next time you think someone hates you, ask them why. :)
Tryingtohelpothers1
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Oct 9, 2015
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People hate others and say awful things because they want to make you feel as they feel,deeply they feel awful and they have problems and they don't know how to get them out or they don't have anyone to trust and they just get it out to you or to whoever they see that is wick, always be happy for who you are and try to make a difference by smiling and thinking positive! By thinking positive you make your self happier and make you look better! I hope everything goes well love â¤ï¸
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