Why can't people just be nice?

Sadly people are not raised to be nice or accept kind actions without compensation. Often we forget that we're one big family and share the earth and lose sight of what is important. But just because kindness is dwindling doesn't mean all hope is lost. Try to influence people with being kind even the smallest of actions help and hopefully kindness can once again become the norm.

I believe some people are actually unhappy with their own selves so they're mean to make themselves feel better which is awful

Everyone must and will have a disagreement on something. That is how people of this world are. As to Which obviously gets people angry at one and other and both sides usually attempt to hurt each other. You can allow that to hurt you, offend you or simply accepts that and move on. If you accepts that and you still is easily offended and or sensitive. Then you should stop searching for people to make you happy and make yourself happy. If you allow people of this world to hurt and offend you. Well.... 7cups is here for you. Remember, however you feel in this world that won't add a few more days to your or my time on this earth.

Being nice takes effort. People are always looking for a quick way for just about anything. Being nice has its rewards, but it takes effort and patience.

Sadly, not everyone has a correct or fair moral. We can only hope to find amazing and open-minded people and hang onto those.

For the same reason others are nice. Simply because we're human. We have both positives and negatives. People who experience pain more than happiness, usually behave in a more negative manner. Maybe, because they're going through something bad and distrusts everyone. Maybe they're pushing you away so they won't hurt anyone. There's good in everyone. In darkness, there's light, it might just be a little weak and dim that's all. If you know someone like this, help them out. You might get a friend in someone, and so will they.

sometimes people feel frustrated and express emotions in an abrasive way. They may also be experiencing difficulties in their own life so, it is important to understand every person's own personal issues can effect them. If someone persistently is bothering you, you may want to speak with them privately or with a trusted friend.

When a bully comes up to you and says that your stupid and whatever they say t i you, dont listen tell them to back ofd and to leave you alone. Also if you have lots of friends who support you they will help. Tell them about it and the bully should back down. If neither works tell a trusted adult and they will take care of it.

I am not defending people who are not nice but some people just do not know how to be nice. They were either never raised to have manners and to be considerate of others and therefore come across as rude, some people were raised to be considerate but might have low self esteem issues and their way of dealing with it is by being mean to people or hurting others as it makes them feel better about themselves. There are also people who are just simply mean to try and fit in with a certain group of people. There are many reasons people tend to be mean but just ignore those people when you find they are not being nice:)

I'm sorry that people aren't the nicest to you. Sometimes they don't realize that what they are doing is wrong. Other times they just don't care. Either way, you can't let it get to you. Some people just won't change. As long as you are doing the right thing, then you will be just fine. Spread your positivity, and hope that will rub off on others.